The Illusion of Control

🛑 The Illusion of Control Are you endlessly overthinking? Playing out every possible scenario in your mind, meticulously planning, but constantly finding reasons not to start? This is not productivity. This is the Illusion of Control—the final act of Self-Sabotage that keeps you stuck. The Hidden Loyalty to Inaction When you obsesses over every little detail, your system feels productive, but in reality, you're not moving anywhere. The stories your mind creates are not your reality; they are a clever defense mechanism—a Hidden Loyalty that says: "If I am still debating, I am safe from the terrifying leap into success." You are trading your abundant future for the comfortable, chaotic anxiety of the present. The truth is simple: Taking action provides more clarity than endlessly overthinking ever could. The Path to Flow To break this pattern and open your Mother-Womb Flow, you must learn to live mindfully in whatever is unfolding right now. Just start, even if you don't have all the answers upfront. The path will become clearer with each small step you take forward. The discomfort you feel when you take action is the sound of the old ceiling shattering. Don't wait for it to feel good. Will you do it now, or are you going to wait? Ready to trade overthinking for abundance? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and osul hugs

🚫 Myth-Busting Post: The Hustle Lie

🚫 Myth-Busting Post: The Hustle Lie Forget the hustle. Your entire society told you money comes from hard work, long hours, and chasing the market. This is the biggest lie keeping you broke. The truth? Your financial ceiling is not set by your work ethic; it is set by your earliest attachment. The Energetic Block to Abundance No amount of affirmations or new strategies will shatter your financial ceiling until you address the primal, unintegrated Mother-Womb Attachment Trauma that unconsciously forces you to choose inherited scarcity over your true wealth. You are not broken; you are simply honoring a Hidden Loyalty to lack. I specialize in healing this exact, definitive break. I use Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations to mend the Mother-Womb fracture, restoring your capacity for abundance with Ease and Flow. Ready to stop fighting the hustle and start receiving? Send me a DM with the word "EASE" to claim your complimentary Mother-Money Flow Diagnostic Call. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli

Reconciliation and MORE...

You're listening to Collitalks Transformative Conversations! I'm your Creator, Producer, and Host, Colli Christante, and this week, we're bridging systemic healing with existential meaning. 🌉 We're joined by the internationally recognized author and facilitator, Ursula Mariabell. Ursula shares her unique global expertise, combining Family Constellations with Frankl's Logotherapy to guide you toward true purpose and reconciliation. Learn the profound Orders of Love and Helping to break old patterns and find deep meaning in your life. 🔑 Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts! Find more from Ursula, including her book and global workshops, at UrsulaMariaBell.com and LinkTr.ee/u.bell! 🌍 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs --

The Breakthrough is NOT Harder Work. It's Unplugging

✨ Serenity First: Why The Deep Work is Your Easiest Path If your healing journey feels heavy, difficult, or like a constant climb, here is the secret truth: You are fighting the wrong battle. You are not broken; you are simply carrying energy that was never yours. The exhaustion, the anxiety, the chronic self-sabotage—all of it is a massive Energy Drain caused by keeping unintegrated trauma and Hidden Loyalties locked down. Your system is working overtime just to maintain the struggle. The Breakthrough is Not Harder Work. It’s Unplugging. My unique method (Systemic Trauma, Family & Yoni Constellations) is the fastest way to get to relief. It’s not about finding new pain; it’s about creating serenity by gently allowing the inherited burdens to be resolved, included, and seen. When we mend the Mother/Womb Line fracture that controls your financial ceiling, you instantly free up the energy you were spending to stay small. The result? You instantly gain: Ease: You stop fighting the hustle and start living in Energetic Alignment. Energy: You reclaim your life force for joy and creativity. Capacity: You open your ability to receive the abundance that is already waiting. The hard part is over, my friend. Your new path is ease and serenity. Ready to trade struggle for instant relief? Send me a DM with the word "EASE" to schedule a session and claim the energetic capacity that is waiting for you. Believe Breathe Transform. Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Trauma That Defines Your Bank Acoount

💥 The Trauma That Defines Your Bank Account I want you to consider a profound truth: Your financial ceiling is not set by the market; it’s set by your earliest attachment. The emotional history you share with your family began even before you were conceived. Your grandmother's traumas, her sadness, and her grief can become your emotional inheritance, settling deep in your Womb line. This means your capacity for abundance is a direct reflection of the primal attachment you experienced with your Mother. The Two Choices Right now, you are making one of two choices: The Loyalty Choice: You unconsciously honor those inherited patterns of lack, making your financial struggle feel like an act of Hidden Loyalty to your family's history. You continue to fight the hustle, and you continue to self-sabotage. The Freedom Choice: You realize that no amount of mindset work will shift your ceiling until that unintegrated trauma is fully resolved, included, and seen. Healing this wound is not just emotional work—it is the definitive path to claiming the wealth that is your birthright. Ready to stop honoring inherited lack and claim your true financial flow? Send me a DM with the word "ROOTS" to apply for a session and become the Detective of your financial patterns. Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Womb - Level Wake - Up Call

💥 The Womb-Level Wake-Up Call Money doesn't flow from effort; it reflects the primal closeness and attachment you experienced with your Mother.

Your capacity for abundance is set by that foundational bond. Forget the hustle. Your capacity to receive money is a direct reflection of the primal attachment you formed with your Mother. Is the earliest break in that bond still limiting your ability to receive the full flow of life and wealth? 💔 If your bank account reflects scarcity, ask yourself: "Where is the deepest, earliest attachment break still limiting my ability to receive the flow of life and wealth?" 💔 Ready to find your true financial flow? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

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A Permission Slip to Believe in Light Again

💖 A Permission Slip to Believe in Light Again If your past story has convinced you that happiness isn't real or possible for you, I want you to pause right now and listen to your wiser self. Those difficult thoughts and heavy emotions that pull you back? They are often echoes of Systemic Trauma and a stubborn Hidden Loyalty to a past that wasn't yours. They are not a forecast of your future. There are incredible experiences out there, waiting to unfold. Your effort is never wasted. Every moment you choose courage—every moment you prioritize your healing over the old patterns—is a massive investment in your destiny. You are allowed to believe in better days. You are allowed to believe in light again. Your story is still unfolding, and your Energetic Alignment is your reward. One way or another, you will receive the rewards you deserve. Don't let the past dictate your future. ✨ Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Hidden Loyalty that Blocks True Love 💔

The Hidden Loyalty that Blocks True Love 💔 You desire deep, authentic love, yet you find yourself repeatedly settling, people-pleasing, or attracting relationships that feel exhausting. Why? It's not about being "incomplete." It's often a Hidden Loyalty—an unconscious vow to repeat a family relationship pattern, even if that pattern is painful. Your system equates this familiar struggle with safety, and that internal noise blocks true connection. You cannot attract wholeness until you claim your own. The Three Shifts Required for Energetic Alignment To become a magnet for healthy, congruent relationships, you must step into Radical Responsibility for your own love field. Define Your Own Worthiness: You must take time to reflect on what love truly means to you. Be absolutely clear about your values, your needs, and your self-worth. When you are afraid of being alone, you may settle for relationships that are not good for you. Release the Attachment to the Struggle: True love is rooted in trust, not fear or desperation. When you understand what love looks and feels like for you, you're more likely to connect with the right person. You are already whole. You are capable of giving and receiving love without debilitating attachment. Claim Your Field: When you fully accept yourself and your value, you stop chasing and start attracting. You become a magnet for relationships that match your healed frequency. This is Energetic Alignment in action. True love won't violate your boundaries. It won't tolerate your self-sabotage. It will meet you exactly where you are: whole, worthy, and free. If you are ready to stop repeating inherited relationship patterns and finally claim the love you were truly meant for, send me a DM with the word "ALIGN" to apply for a breakthrough session. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli

The Field is Everything: Finding and Living Your Soul Purpose

You have a soul purpose, but trauma may be blocking the signal. 🔑 Join Creator, Producer, and Host Doctor Colli Christante on Finding and Living Your Soul Purpose to clear the energetic blockages and outdated Hidden Loyalties once and for all. Discover the powerful role of your personal energetic field and step into a life where transformation and abundance are your new normal. This is the deep, real-world healing you've been waiting for. 💫

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The 3 Must -Knows for Achieving Systemic Freedom

The 3 Must-Knows for Achieving Systemic Freedom If you want to permanently break cycles and reclaim your power, you need to have these three elements in place. These are what my successful clients embrace: They Accept the "Hidden Loyalty" Diagnosis: They stop saying "I'm lazy" and start asking, "What inherited vow is making me self-sabotage?" (e.g., Is my success threatening my family's survival narrative?). They embrace that their self-sabotage is a deep, unconscious loyalty they need to release. They Prioritize the Root, Not the Branch: They understand that willpower is useless against Systemic Trauma. They are committed to methods that speak the language of the body and the soul, like Family Constellations, to trace the emotional burden back to its origin. They Choose Safety Over Struggle: They understand that their pattern of struggle is actually their nervous system's way of seeking a familiar, safe place. They commit to creating congruency—making their desired success feel safe, deserved, and fully integrated. My work provides the map to achieve these three shifts. It’s deep, it requires courage, and it is the only way to lasting freedom. If you are ready to move from blaming your behavior to mastering your destiny, send me a DM with the word "DETECTIVE" to apply for a complimentary Breakthrough Session. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love ans soul hugs #ColliChristante #RadicalResponsibility #SelfSabotage #HiddenLoyalties #BreakCycles #SystemicTrauma

My Personal

🔓 My Personal 3-Step Process for Ending Professional Self-Sabotage I want to share a pattern I lived in for decades: I was great at building incredible projects, getting featured on podcast,magazines and connecting with elite clients... but every time I reached a certain level of success, I would unconsciously self-sabotage my health or finances. I was always climbing a mountain, but the mountain always felt exhausting. I genuinely believed struggle was the price of success. But once I dedicated myself to tracing this systemic pattern, I realized the struggle wasn’t my destiny—it was a Hidden Loyalty. Here are the three core, non-negotiable steps I had to take to finally break that cycle and permanently end my own professional self-sabotage: Step 1: Locate the Hidden Loyalty (The Unconscious Vow) I had to stop treating the symptoms (like overworking, procrastination, or spending habits) and become a Detective of my own patterns. I discovered I was carrying an inherited vow that said: "If I succeed easily, I abandon my family who struggled." My success was directly connected to their pain. The Shift: I stopped looking at my behavior as a personal flaw and started seeing it as a systemic commitment. This shift takes the shame away and gives you a clear target for healing. Step 2: Trace the Systemic Root (The Foundational Healing) Willpower and affirmations were useless against this deep, inherited blueprint. I realized I needed a method to speak the language of my body, not just my mind. For me, that meant using Family Constellations to actually see the loyalty in action. The Shift: We aren't healing something that happened to us; we are healing something that happened in the family system. Once I saw the root event that caused the original trauma, I was able to gently release my obligation to repeat the pattern. Step 3: Integrate the New Pattern (The Congruent Life) The final step is integrating the nervous system. After disconnecting from the loyalty, my body still expected loss and rejection. I had to consciously, consistently choose success—not as a hustle, but as a safe, deserved outcome. The Shift: This is where we rewire the fear-based fight/flight/freeze response. My body and soul finally became congruent—what I consciously desired (success) now matched what my nervous system subconsciously accepted (safety). If you’ve recognized yourself in this story—if you know you’re constantly holding yourself back out of a deeply rooted, unseen loyalty—then you are ready to finally end that cycle. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Releasing Inherited Pain - How Family Constellations Free the Soul

Welcome back to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations ✨, the supportive space where we gently explore the wounds that hold the key to our greatest potential 🔑. I'm your host, Colli Christante, Doctor in Integrated Systemic Trauma, and a Detective of Hidden Wounds. Today, we are diving into a topic that is profoundly moving and necessary for true freedom: Releasing Inherited Pain: How Family Constellations Free the Soul. Have you ever felt like you’re carrying a weight that doesn't belong to you? A pattern of self-sabotage, struggle, or fear that seems to have no logical origin in your own life? That's the signature of inherited pain ⛓️—the unconscious contracts and loyalties we carry for our family lineage. In this supportive episode, we’re going to tenderly explore the systemic burdens—the Hidden Loyalties—that unconsciously govern your decisions, your finances, and your happiness. We’ll gently shine a light on 💡 how this unseen inheritance impacts your nervous system and keeps you stuck in cycles that aren't even yours. Join me as we unravel the mysteries of the mind, body, and spirit, offering fresh perspectives on the art of transformation through Family Constellations. It’s time to stop unconsciously serving the past. This is your opportunity to mend those broken connections, break free from inherited struggle, and allow your soul to finally be free. 🕊️ Let’s begin.

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You'll Never End Self-Sabotage Until You Have These 3 Things In Place

If you’re stuck in a cycle of frustration—making progress only to pull yourself back—the problem isn't discipline. It's an unresolved loyalty buried deep in your system. To finally break free and step into your fullest potential, you need to deliberately establish these three core elements: 1. The Willingness to Be the "Black Sheep" (The Courage to Disconnect) Self-sabotage is rarely about you. It’s often a Hidden Loyalty—a subconscious promise to stay small, broke, or sick to belong to your original family system. You must be willing to emotionally risk rejection, exclusion, or separation from the 'collective' (the family or culture that birthed your pain). The Problem: Your nervous system equates success with abandonment. The Solution: You must consciously choose your highest destiny over the safety of the herd. 2. The Map to the Root Cause (Systemic Clarity) You can't solve an ancient, inherited pattern with modern motivation techniques. Trying to 'think positively' or use willpower on a systemic issue is exhausting. You need a map to trace the trauma back to its origin. The Problem: You’re treating the symptom (the sabotage) instead of the inherited blueprint (the Systemic Trauma). The Solution: You need a methodology like Family Constellations to detect the exact moment and source of the wound so you can heal it at the root, not the branch. 3. The Language of the Subconscious (New Programming) The self-sabotage pattern is a highly successful program running in the background. To override it, you must communicate with your body and mind in a language it understands—the language of felt experience, emotion, and congruent action. The Problem: You are consciously asking for success while your nervous system is programmed for flight, fight, or freeze. The Solution: You must engage in deep work that integrates the unintegrated emotional responses and rewires your self-talk into a vibration of worthiness and acceptance. Invitation: If you are ready to be the Detective of Your Own Patterns and shift from frustration to lasting freedom, then you are ready for my systemic approach. Send me a DM with the word "DETECTIVE" to apply for a complimentary Breakthrough Session. #ColliChristante #SelfSabotage #HiddenLoyalties #FamilyConstellations #BreakCycles #SystemicTrauma #ReclaimYourPower

The Power of Your Next Step

✨ The Power of Your Next Step ✨ Life never stands still — - it keeps moving, inviting you to evolve, release, and begin again. 🌿 You can either stay anchored in what has already happened… or choose to rise 🌅 to move forward 💫 to meet the next version of yourself that’s waiting. We all stumble. We all fall. But every mistake, every heartbreak, every pause — it’s all part of your becoming. 🌸 The past can’t be rewritten, but its meaning can be transformed. The lesson is the gift. 💛 The moment you choose to respond with awareness instead of self-judgment — everything begins to shift. Your response — not the old story your mind keeps replaying — is what will shape your future. So take a deep breath. Feel your feet on the ground. From this moment on, give yourself permission to move in a better direction — one aligned with truth, peace, and possibility. 🌙 And so ... Who doesn't want to transform what once held you back into the very energy that propels you forward. If your heart feels the pull to step into what’s next… I’m here to walk beside you. 🤍 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #Transformation #HealingJourney #InnerWork #SelfDiscovery #ColliChristante #SoulAlignment #SystemicHealing #MoveForward

Inner Transformation in Bloom

🌿 October 6, 2025 — Inner Transformation in Bloom 🌿 The beautiful changes unfolding around you aren’t random — they’re reflections of your inner transformation. 💫 Every moment you’ve faced with courage… every time you’ve chosen to trust instead of fear… has shifted something deep within you. You’re no longer reacting from old patterns — you’re responding from power, grace, and grounded intuition. 🌷 This is what happens when you do the inner work. When you honor your intuition — your quiet, steady guide — life begins to mirror back the truth of who you are becoming. You start to attract new experiences, new people, and new opportunities that match your frequency of clarity, joy, and purpose. 💖 Real change doesn’t begin when the outside world looks different — it begins when you do. This is the essence of the work I do — guiding others to move from fear to freedom, from self-sabotage to self-alignment, and from confusion to inner clarity. 🌟 Because when you transform the limited version of yourself, life expands in the most extraordinary ways. 🌈 Believe Breathe Transfrom Collitalks Love and soul hugs

“From the WHL to the NHL… and now training champions. 🎧🔥 Meet Tim Preston.”

🎙️ Welcome to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations — the space where we explore stories of resilience, growth, and the power of transformation 🌱✨ Today, I have the absolute joy of sitting down with someone I first taught mind-body communication to when he was just in grade six 🙌. Now, he’s gone on to do incredible things. Tim Preston’s journey has taken him from playing in the WHL with the Seattle Thunderbirds 🏒 and Saskatoon Blades, to being drafted into the NHL 🏆, and playing within the Pittsburgh Penguins organization. But what’s most inspiring is how he’s turned his passion for hockey into empowering others — training players who’ve gone on to win Olympic gold 🥇, the Stanley Cup 🏒, and some of hockey’s most prestigious awards. In this conversation, we go beyond the game itself to explore the mindset, resilience, and inner drive it takes not only to perform at the highest levels but to inspire others to do the same 💪💫 So let’s dive in… 🎧 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Power of Loving Yourself First

💖 The Power of Loving Yourself First 💖 Love yourself so deeply that you don’t need anyone else to complete you. 🌹 ✨ You are a beautiful soul. ✨ You carry tenderness and compassion within you. ✨ You move through life with sincerity and heart. And the truth is ~ you will always have you. When you begin to give yourself the love, respect, and kindness you’ve been waiting to receive from others, everything changes. You stop chasing approval. You stop shrinking for acceptance. You stop letting people who can’t see your worth hold any power over you. Instead… you attract those who recognize your light. 🌟 People who meet you with respect, genuine admiration, and love that feels safe and true. 💎 Moving beyond the old wounds and self-sabotage keeps you seeking validation outside yourself, and so why not come home to the deep, unshakable love that begins within. Because when you love yourself first, you don’t settle for less than you deserve — and your life transforms in ways you never thought possible. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love 💖 and soul hugs 🤗, Colli

The Common Band-Aid That Keeps You Stuck

💔 The Common Band-Aid That Keeps You Stuck 💔 So many women I meet are trying to “fix” themselves with quick solutions: ✨ Reading more self-help books 📚 ✨ Saying positive affirmations in the mirror 🙌 ✨ Distracting themselves with busyness 🏃‍♀️ These things feel like they’re working in the moment, because they give a temporary sense of control or relief. That’s why so many people keep reaching for them. But here’s the truth… ⚡️ They don’t last, because they never address the root cause. The real reason you keep looping back into the same patterns is self-sabotage born out of hidden wounds—feelings of unworthiness, shame, or fear that quietly run the show from underneath. 👉 This is why you can set goals, work hard, and even see small wins… yet somehow slip back into old behaviors. It’s not because you’re lazy or weak. It’s because your inner saboteur is fighting for “safety,” not success. I know this one deeply. I used to believe if I just tried harder, pushed myself more, or added another practice, things would finally change. But it wasn’t until I learned to uncover and heal the wound beneath the sabotage that everything shifted. 🌹 💎 The truth? Your gift is inside your wound. When you face the patterns that have been secretly holding you back, you finally unlock the freedom, love, and success you’ve been craving. ✨ Stop treating the symptoms. Start transforming the root. ✨ This is the work I do with my clients: helping you see the hidden patterns, release the sabotage, and step fully into the version of you that was always meant to shine. 🌟 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love 💖 and soul hugs 🤗, Colli

Inherited Patterns: How Family Systmes Shape Our Life

"Welcome to Collitalks: Transformative Conversations ✨ — I’m your creator, producer, and host, [Your Name]. Today, we’re opening a sacred conversation 🕊️ about inherited patterns — the unseen threads 🧵 woven through our family systems that shape how we move through the world 🌍. These patterns carry memory, emotion, and energy 🔮 — passed down through generations, often unconsciously. But when we bring them to light ☀️, we begin the work of healing 💗. In this episode, we’ll explore how ancestral imprints influence our path, and how awareness becomes the first step toward freedom, forgiveness, and transformation 🌱. Let’s journey inward — together.” 🧘♀️🌌 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

I Believe in You

Once you release the need to control every outcome, something powerful happens — you begin to flow with life. And in that flow? 🌊 You unlock a level of abundance that no amount of planning could’ve created. Let go of the pressure to analyze every twist and turn. It was never yours to carry in the first place. Support often shows up in the most unexpected ways. And the opportunities that look “ordinary”? They might just be the ones that change everything. People believe what they want to believe. That alone explains so much about what they do or don’t have. Does that make your entire flippin’ day or what?! 😄 ✨ I believe in you. Always. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Ever Have the Urge to Control an Outcome?

Use this reframe the next time you feel the urge to control an outcome. Instead of tightening your grip, try this: “I can care deeply… and still let go.” There is freedom in allowing life to flow — to savor what’s good without needing to hold on so tightly. Detachment isn’t disconnection — it’s choosing presence over control. It’s being here, fully, without fear of what's next. Try this the next time you're clinging to certainty. You might find that peace lives in the release. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Truth I No Longer Dilute

🔥 The Truth I No Longer Dilute 🔥 For too long, I softened parts of myself to be more “marketable.” I hid the depth of what I see, sense, and know. But here’s the truth… ✨ Real transformation isn’t pretty. ✨ Healing isn’t a quick fix. ✨ You can’t bypass the hidden loyalties, the self-sabotage, or the ancestral pain you carry. That’s the truth my industry often avoids. I am here to serve those who are tired of surface solutions. The women (and men) who have silenced their voice just to belong. Those carrying burdens that aren’t theirs. Those who know they are meant for more — and are ready to reclaim their freedom, their truth, and their life’s energy. The circle, the tree, the sacred feminine — these are my symbols. Courage, freedom, compassion, and integrity are my values. And my gift? 🌙 To reveal what has been unseen, to name what has been unspoken, and to walk beside you as you reclaim what was lost. Because when you finally feel safe within yourself… no outside force can ever take away your peace again. This is my truth. This is my work. And I will no longer dilute it. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

From Care Giver to Catalyst - Turning Life Loss into Business Breakthroughs

Hello everyone, and welcome back to Transformative Conversations. I’m your host, Colli Christante — creator, director, and guide for this space where we uncover hidden patterns, explore systemic trauma, and shine light on the paths that lead us back to our true selves. Today, I’m honored to be joined by Lorna Scott. Lorna is a powerful guide for women entrepreneurs, helping them turn life transitions into business breakthroughs through her Identity to Impact System™. Known for her calm clarity and fierce compassion, she walks beside women who feel buried in overwhelm and self-doubt, showing them how to reclaim their focus, confidence, and create a business that truly reflects who they are now. With decades of experience across human services, online marketing, caregiving advocacy, and transformational development — plus her certification in the Canfield Methodology, where she’s even assisted Jack Canfield in training new trainers — Lorna brings a rare mix of strategy, lived wisdom, and heart. And today, she’s here to share not only her wisdom, but also her brand-new program designed to help women step into their true identity, reclaim their confidence, and expand their impact. This conversation is all about identity, resilience, and the courage to align your business with your authentic self. I cannot wait for you to experience what Lorna has to share. So let’s dive in. Here’s my conversation with Lorna Scott.

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Inside Out

✨ You may think that healing or transformation comes from what happens outside of you—whether that’s approval, love, money, or validation. But what if I told you that paradigm is on its way out? The shift I see happening is this: people are no longer willing to live in a world where their peace depends on everything around them being perfect. The new way is about becoming a safe space for yourself. Because no matter what’s happening out there—who leaves, who stays, what breaks, or what builds—when you feel safe inside your own skin, nothing can rob you of your peace. 🌱 Each day gives you another chance to begin again. 🌬️ To breathe, to feel, to simply be. This is where true contentment is born—not from the external, but from within. And once you anchor into that, you’ll discover that no one and nothing can take it away. This is the work I do: guiding you back home to yourself. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨 Here’s the elephant in the room: 👉 No amount of positive affirmations, mindset hacks, or quick-fix self-help tools will create lasting change if you haven’t uncovered the hidden loyalties and systemic entanglements that are running your life beneath the surface. This is the harsh truth my industry often avoids — because it’s easier to sell a shiny “3 steps to happiness” promise than to guide someone into the deeper work of facing what is unseen. But until you shine a light on those hidden loyalties - - the unconscious bonds that drive self-sabotage, burnout, and cycles of pain — you will keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how many workshops or books you consume. 🌿 Transformation requires courage. 🌿 It requires looking at the roots, not just trimming the weeds. 🌿 And it requires wisdom, not just knowledge. This is the work I do. This is why I became a Doctor in Integrated Systemic Trauma. Because when you’re ready to stop circling the same mountain, you need someone who can walk with you into the depth — and guide you back out with freedom in your soul. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Like a Sunrise

Heartfelt Gratitude

Today I am honored to share that I have officially received my Doctorate in Systemic Trauma through the University of Systemic Work. 🌿 This certificate represents not just an academic achievement, but five years of deep study, practice, and embodiment. I am filled with gratitude for: 💜 Rector Graciela Laura 💜 Dr. Anngwyn St. Just 💜 Nora, for her beautiful translations 💜 Lucia, for her tireless tech support 💜 All the visiting professors 💜 And my colleagues, who walked this path beside me This journey was never about collecting knowledge — it was about gaining wisdom. Living the work. Facing my own patterns. Healing the unseen. And now, carrying this forward in service to others. A certificate may be a piece of paper — but what it represents is a lifelong commitment to honoring the soul, uncovering what is hidden, and guiding others back to their truth. Thank you to everyone who has been part of this chapter. The journey continues… 🌟 #DoctorateInSystemicTrauma #EmbodiedWisdom #SystemicWork #HealingJourney #LifeWork #SacredPath

Knowledge vs Wisdom

✨ New Podcast Episode ✨ Today’s episode of Transformative Conversations is extra special… 💜 Not only do I dive into the difference between wisdom and knowledge — and how social media can distract us from doing the deeper work that leads to true transformation — but I also share a very personal milestone. After 5 years of dedicated study, I have officially become a Doctor in Systemic Trauma with the University of Systemic Work. 🌿 This is more than a title. It’s about embodying the wisdom that only comes from walking through the fire of life, doing the inner work, and carrying that forward to guide others. Tune in as I share why knowledge fills the mind, but wisdom transforms the soul. 🎧

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Embracing Life as it Unfolds

✨ September 13, 2025 ✨ There have been so many times in my life when things did not turn out the way I expected. Plans collapsed, relationships shifted, and the ground beneath me felt uncertain. In the past, I would fight against reality — trying to control it, fix it, or resist it. But what I discovered is this: the more I return to my heart’s calm center, the more peace I find, no matter what is happening around me. 🌿 It doesn’t mean the chaos disappears. But it does mean I no longer let unhealthy thoughts distort my perception of who I am or where my life is heading. Life is always unfolding — sometimes beautifully, sometimes painfully — but always with something to teach us. When I allow myself to embrace it unconditionally, I can see the glimmers of joy and hope that are always present, even in the darkest seasons. ✨ If you’re in a place where things feel heavy or uncertain, know this: peace isn’t found in perfection — it’s found in your heart. Come back to it, again and again. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Truth About Growth Most People Miss

✨ The Truth About Growth Most People Miss ✨ So many people try to “fix” themselves by adding more— 📚 more books 🎧 more podcasts 📝 more self-improvement tips But here’s the mistake: They believe that doing more will finally make the stuckness go away. In reality, piling on more strategies often buries the real issue even deeper. The truth? You don’t need more information - - you need transformation. You need to uncover and release the hidden loyalties, ancestral patterns, and old narratives that silently hold you back. That’s why I love what my client shared recently: “Could not have acheived this career milestone without you. If you are reading this and are serious about becoming better personally and professionally, then Colli can be your life coach to guide you and also help you to get rid of the issues that are holding you back! Contact her now"! Robert Ames CCM, PGA 🌿 This is the work I do. It’s not about quick fixes or band-aids. It’s about creating lasting freedom in your soul and your life. ✨ If you’re tired of trying to “add more” to fix yourself, maybe it’s time to release what was never yours to carry in the first place. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Challenges are Part of the Soul's Path

✨ Challenges are part of the soul’s path ✨ So often, we search for the perfect solution - - the one answer that will finally make everything fall into place. But what if the key isn’t in the solution… but in the perspective? 🌿 Fear narrows our vision, keeping us trapped in old stories. 🌿 A subtle shift in awareness begins to soften the edges. 🌿 And suddenly… what once felt heavy reveals hidden gifts, quiet opportunities, and lessons laced with wisdom. The truth is, you don’t have to know the way forward. You only need to hold the dream close to your heart and take a step. That’s when life moves toward you — wands waving, mysteries unfolding, and new beginnings quietly forming. What may feel like an ending could simply be the doorway into a luminous new chapter. 🌸 💫 For those who feel called — this is the sacred work I hold space for: guiding you to see the unseen, to uncover the wisdom in your challenges, and to step into the magic that has always been waiting for you. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Do You Feel Like Life is Happening to You Instead of For You?

✨ Use this reframe the next time you feel like life is happening to you instead of for you. So often we slip into the story: “This is unfair… why me?” But here’s the shift → What if life isn’t punishing you, but positioning you? Every challenge carries a hidden doorway. Every setback is coded with information about where you’re still entangled, repeating, or holding fear. When you pause, breathe, and ask “What is life showing me here?” you step into your power. Because you can’t transform what you keep resisting — but you can transform what you’re willing to face. 💫 Try this today: the next time you feel like a victim of circumstance, ask yourself: 👉 “If this is guiding me toward something, what might it be?” That one question shifts you from powerless to powerful — from trapped to free. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

You Can Never Defeat What You Are Afraid Of

🌑 You can never defeat what you are afraid of 🌑 Fear has a way of disguising itself. It shows up as procrastination, self-doubt, overthinking, or even the stories you repeat to yourself about why you “can’t.” But here’s the truth… What you fear most isn’t the outside situation. It’s the inside confrontation - - the hidden pattern, the buried memory, the unspoken loyalty to pain that keeps you circling back. That’s why surface fixes never work. Because you can’t out-think, out-run, or out-hustle what you’re afraid to face. ✨ The moment you turn toward it instead of away, everything shifts. You don’t just “defeat” fear - - you integrate the wisdom behind it. And from there, you finally reclaim your voice, your freedom, and your life. This is the work I do with my clients: I help you uncover the roots of fear that keep you stuck, so you no longer have to fight yourself — you get to transform. 💫 If you’re ready to stop being ruled by fear and finally step into your truth, send me a message. It’s time. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Surface Problem vs. Root Issue

🌹 Surface Problem vs. Root Issue 🌹 When people come to me, they often say things like: 👉 “I just need to stop overreacting.” 👉 “I need to manage my triggers better.” 👉 “If only I could control my emotions, I’d be fine.” But here’s the truth… what they really need isn’t more control. It isn’t about silencing the reaction or pushing the trigger away. 💡 The real issue is this: those triggers are connected to hidden loyalties, unhealed trauma, and ancestral patterns that keep them repeating the same cycles — no matter how hard they try to “manage” it on the surface. ✨ When we get to the root - - decoding the language of the nervous system, unearthing the buried pain, and releasing what was never truly theirs to carry — everything shifts. Instead of battling their reactions, my clients begin to feel: 🌿 Grounded in who they really are 🌿 Free from the constant loop of self-sabotage 🌿 Open to create a life that feels safe, aligned, and truly theirs Because the truth is - - you don’t need more willpower or self-control. You need liberation from the unseen forces shaping your life. That’s where the real transformation begins. 💬 Tell me — do you find yourself stuck trying to manage the same “problem” over and over? Maybe it isn’t the real problem at all. Believe Breathe Transformation Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Erotic, Sensual, Intimate

✨Erotic, Sensual, Intimate ✨ Welcome, beautiful souls, to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations. Today, we enter a space rarely spoken of with such honesty, reverence, and sensuality. I’m joined by the luminous Irmgard Rauscher, who brings her deep wisdom and presence to guide us through the intimate terrain of perimenopause and menopause. This is not just a conversation about change—it is about desire, vitality, and the erotic pulse that still flows through us as women. It is about touching the places where body and soul meet, where longing and liberation awaken, and where we reclaim our right to feel alive, sensual, and whole in every season of life. Because the body is not just biology—it is a temple of pleasure and wisdom. A place where our deepest truths live, waiting to be listened to, honored, and celebrated. So, take a slow breath, soften into your body, and allow yourself to be held in this conversation. Together, we’ll explore the mysteries, the pleasures, and the power of womanhood in its most intimate unfolding. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Have You Been Hurt by a Future You Haven't Even Arrived at Yet?

Have you been hurt by a future you haven’t even arrived at yet? So often, we suffer twice - -once from the wound itself, and again from the story we tell ourselves about what might happen next. Your mind, shaped by old hurts, is quick to project yesterday’s pain onto tomorrow’s possibilities. It fills in the blanks with fear, preparing for abandonment, rejection, or failure - - before life has even spoken. But here’s the truth: the meaning you attach to this moment is not fact, it’s a reflection of where you’ve been. When you pause, breathe, and choose to respond from the present—not from the ghosts of your past—you open the door to an entirely different reality. Sometimes the shift is subtle, like turning your face toward the light. Other times, it’s a complete reclamation of your story. Either way, it only takes one conscious choice to stop reliving an old pattern and start creating something new. 💫 What if your future wasn’t another repeat of the past? 💫 What if your next step was guided by clarity, not fear? 💫 What if you trusted life to unfold in ways you’ve never imagined? This is the work I do: helping you decode the hidden language of your fears, loosen the grip of the past, and create space for your future to arrive—free, fresh, and fully yours. Are you ready to stop carrying wounds from a life that hasn’t even happened yet? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Let's Get Back to Basics

🌿 Keep showing up with unwavering belief in the goodness of life. Let's get back to basics, You live in a dreamworld where all things are possible. Your mere existence is the undeniable proof. You don’t need the perfect plan. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Life was never meant to be linear. The detours, delays, and obstacles? They’re not mistakes — they’re the very stepping stones shaping you. ✨ The truth is: courage isn’t about certainty. It’s about showing up for yourself, your dreams Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

“No More Silence: Sex, Truth & the Rise of Authentic Desire”

Who Shall I Help Next?

🌿 In the great adventure of life, none of us “get it” at the beginning. We stumble, we learn, and so… help is sent. Over time, some begin to understand, but understanding without living brings no real change. So more help is sent. Then, a shift happens — a few begin to live what they know, and in doing so, they inspire others to begin “getting it” too. An upward spiral begins to unfold. Eventually, a time comes when more and more are both getting it and living it. This is how collective transformation takes root. So the question becomes not “When will I arrive?” but rather: ✨ “Who shall I help next?” Because every time you live what you know, you light the way for another soul. 💫 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

SHAME

Shame Episode ✨🎙️ I’m Colli Christante — creator, director, producer, and host of ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations. Every week, I open a space where conversations move beneath the surface — where we uncover the hidden patterns, the ancestral ties, and the quiet voices inside that shape our lives. This week, we’re leaning into a theme many of us carry but rarely speak aloud: shame. Shame can silence us, keep us small, and tether us to stories that were never truly ours. It lingers in our language, our bodies, and even in the lineage we carry. But here’s the truth: when we begin to name it, explore it, and gently unravel it, shame transforms. What once bound us becomes the very doorway into freedom, authenticity, and deeper connection. With over 40 years of experience in systemic trauma, family constellations, and self-sabotage work, I bring not just expertise but lived wisdom. As your host, I don’t just talk about transformation — I walk beside you in it. ✨ Tune in to this week’s episode as we shine light on the shadows of shame — and discover together how to reclaim the voice, truth, and power that have always been yours. 🎧 ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations — where healing meets truth, and truth sets you free.

Meet Robbie Ames - - Celebrating A Client Success Story

✨ Celebrating Client Success ✨ It is with such pride and joy that I share this incredible milestone of my client and friend, Robbie Ames, who has just been selected as the new GM/COO at The Club at Quail Ridge in Florida. Robbie recently shared these kind words about our work together: “As one of my mentors and a dear friend of mine, you have played an integral role preparing me for this career role. You guided me every step of the way during the various chapters of life, and you have helped me to grow exponentially both personally and professionally. I could not have done it without you, and I just wish everyone had you as a secret weapon. THANK YOU.” Watching Robbie step into this prestigious role—succeeding an admired leader after 12 remarkable years—has been such an honor. His dedication, vision, and willingness to do the deep inner and outer work have brought him here. This is the kind of transformation I live for: guiding leaders to rise with clarity, confidence, and authenticity. Here’s to Robbie’s continued success as he begins this exciting new chapter. 🌟

over 2, Downloads

🌟✨ 2,000 Downloads! ✨🌟 My heart is overflowing today 💜 … because ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations has just passed 2,000 downloads 🎉🎧 This isn’t just a number—it’s a reflection of every single one of you who has tuned in, shared an episode, invited a friend, or simply taken time to listen. 🌿✨ To my inspiring guests — thank you for your wisdom, courage, and truth. 🌹 To my beautiful listeners — thank you for opening your hearts and minds. 💕 To those who download, share, and spread the word — you are the reason this ripple keeps growing 🌊. Here’s to the next 2,000 and beyond… because the world is ready for more transformative conversations that heal, awaken, and inspire. 🌟💫 With deepest gratitude,love and soul hugs Colli 💜

What Patterns Do You Carry?

We all carry patterns — some that empower us, and some that quietly hold us back. Here’s something I’d love to hear from you today: 👉 What’s a belief or story you’ve carried for years that you’re starting to question now? OR 👉 When you think about the language you use every day — the words you repeat to yourself — how do you think they’ve shaped your life? OR 👉 If you could shift just one repeating pattern in your family or in yourself, what would it be — and how do you imagine life would feel without it? Your answers not only open up your own awareness, they help others realize they’re not alone in the questions they’re asking themselves. 💫 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Reclaiming Your Voice

🎙️ I’m Colli Christante - -

creator, producer, and host of ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations. In this episode, I sit down with the unforgettable Dr. Rose Backman—known as Canada’s “truth speaker”—a woman whose voice, wisdom, and unapologetic courage have inspired thousands to break free from limitations and claim their personal power. Dr. Rose brings a fierce blend of insight, intuition, and truth-telling that will stir your soul, challenge old patterns, and ignite transformation. This conversation is raw, real, and deeply liberating—an invitation to rise into the fullest expression of who you are. Join me on ColliTalks as we explore what it truly means to reclaim your voice, your truth, and your freedom—with Dr. Rose Backman.

You Matter

💛 You give so much to others. 🌸 You often go out of your way to make sure everyone else is okay. As beautiful and admirable as that is… it’s not sustainable. 💫 🌿 Your soul needs replenishing, too — or you risk quietly burning out. It’s time to start honoring your needs first. 💗 Show up for yourself the way you so lovingly show up for others. 💬 Offer yourself the same kindness, encouragement, and grace you give so freely. Every step you take toward your own well-being nourishes not just you, but also the way you can love and serve in the world. 🌷 Your energy matters. Your heart matters. You matter. ✨ Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Your Words Are the Walls of Your World

🌿 Your Words Are the Walls of Your World Every day, you speak a language that quietly shapes your reality. It’s in the phrases you repeat, the stories you tell, the way you explain yourself to others — and to yourself. I’ve seen it over and over in my work: the language you use is not just communication… it’s a container. It can keep you safe, yes — but it can also keep you stuck. When you unknowingly speak in the language of your wounds, you replay the same old stories, and those stories become walls. 🔍 In my private sessions, I decode the hidden architecture of your language. I listen for the patterns, the inherited phrases, the ancestral echoes — the unspoken agreements you’ve carried, often for generations. And together, we break them open. From there, we plant new language — words that expand possibility, that align with who you’re becoming, not who you’ve been. Because when your words change, your world changes. If you’ve been feeling like you’re circling the same emotional track — repeating the same conversations, hitting the same walls — this is your invitation Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks' Love and soul hugs

Sunday August 17th, Dr. Rose Backman

The Problem You Think You Have vs. The Truth Beneath It

✨ The Problem You Think You Have vs. the Truth Beneath It When people come to me looking for a way to stop sabotaging themselves 🙅‍♀️ or to “finally get over” a recurring emotional pattern 🔄… they usually believe the problem is just a lack of willpower, a mindset block, or not trying hard enough. But that’s almost never the real root. 🌱 What they actually need is to uncover the hidden loyalties and systemic patterns 🧬 they’re unconsciously carrying from their family, ancestors, or past experiences — patterns that keep them repeating the same painful cycles no matter how many times they promise themselves it will be different. You can’t simply “think” your way out of these loops. 💭🚫 You have to see what’s been invisible 👁 — the unspoken agreements, the generational wounds, the deep-rooted stories living in your nervous system — and then gently release them so your soul can breathe again. ✨💨 That’s the work I do. ❤️ We meet the pain you can name, find the root you can’t yet see, and bring freedom to both. When you heal at the root, the self-sabotage dissolves, the weight of the past lifts 🕊, and you finally feel the spaciousness to live the life you’ve been craving. 🌸 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Power of Softness:Embracing Vulnerabilty and Accepting Fate

**"Thank you for joining me today on ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations 🌿🎙️. I’m your creator, producer, and host, Colli Christante — and it means the world that you chose to spend this time here with me 💛. If today’s conversation stirred something inside you — a recognition, a memory, or even a quiet whisper of possibility ✨ — I invite you to carry that forward. Let it soften the hard edges. Let it remind you that no matter how much pain you’ve walked through, there is always a way to meet yourself with more compassion 🌸. If you’re ready to explore the hidden patterns, the unspoken stories, and the deeper truths that are shaping your life, I’d love for you to connect with me 🤝. You’ll find all the ways to reach me in the show notes. Until next time, take gentle care of your heart 💖 — and remember, your softness is not a weakness. It’s a superpower 🌟."** Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Love has many faces - are you seeing all of them?

Love has many faces — are you seeing them all? 💫❤️ Love isn’t just red roses 🌹, stolen glances 👀, or handwritten letters ✉️ tucked beneath pillows. It’s quieter than that, sometimes. It’s the friend who checks in when your energy feels off 💌 The sibling whose hug unravels something tight in your chest 🤗 The parent who still shows up in small, steady ways 🫶— even if they can’t say the words out loud. But if you’re only looking for love in one place — a partner, a romance, a story told by movies 🎥💔 — you might miss the sacred ways it already surrounds you. ✨ What if love is already here… just in a different form? Stay open 💖 Let it find you in the ordinary 🌻 Let it remind you: You are not alone 🤍 You are already deeply loved 🕊️ You just might be looking in the wrong direction 🧭 What unexpected shape has love taken in your life lately? 💭 #LoveIsEverywhere #RedefineLove #HealingConnections #SoulfulLiving #EverydayLove

Question for the Wise Women, the Quiet Rebels, the Ones Remembering Who They are ..

🌿 Question for the Wise Women, the Quiet Rebels, the Ones Remembering Who They Are... What truth did you have to bury in order to be loved? Was it your voice? Your intuition? Your need for freedom, rest, wildness, or safety? When did you first learn it wasn’t safe to be you — and what would shift in your life if that story no longer ran the show? I ask this not to expose your pain, but to open a window to your power. Because this is where the roots live. This is the work I do. And this is where the liberation begins. 🌀 I'd love to hear from you in the comments — or feel free to message me privately if it feels more tender. You don’t have to carry it alone anymore. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

From Calcutta to Canada - A Life Told in Stories with Author Sam Mukherjee

🎙️ New Episode: From Calcutta to Canada — A Life Told in Stories with Author

Sam Mukherjee on ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations ✨ Join me in a heartfelt conversation with the gifted novelist, criminal defense researcher, and master storyteller — Sam Mukherjee. 🌍 From the streets of Calcutta to the creative corridors of Canada, Sam shares the winding path of his life — crossing continents, genres, and lived experiences. We talk about: 🖋️ The power of storytelling in justice and healing 👣 His journey from novice writer to published novelist 👨‍👧 How fatherhood transformed his voice 📚 Blending fantasy, thrillers, and raw realities 💫 The thread of compassion running through it all Whether he’s exposing human trafficking or weaving magical realism, Sam’s stories invite us to feel, reflect, and awaken. Come listen as we uncover how stories shape us, save us, and set us free. 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. #ColliTalks #SamMukherjee #PodcastPromo #StorytellingMatters #TransformativeConversations

Heartfelt Gratitude for the Birthday Wishes

Heartfelt gratitude to and for each and every one who wished me a happy birthday. I spent the day doing what I love, which is supporting others' journey, raising their platform to the highest level through my podcast, walking along the beach where I live, and best of all, spending time with my daughter and grandchildren and of course gifting my granchildren with nummy cake. And so ... Now my gift to each of you is what I most want you to dream of are possibilities that thrill you. What I most want you to feel is happy. And what I most want you to know is that you’re loved. Love and soul hugs Colli

Healing is Like Tending to a Twisted Necklace

🌿 Healing is like tending to a tangled necklace ✨ You know when a delicate necklace has been shoved in a drawer for years — knotted, twisted around itself and others? You can’t just yank it free. You sit down 🪷 You breathe 🌬️ You gently trace the threads with curiosity and care 🧵 That’s the work I do with my clients. We don’t rip at the pattern or shame the tangle. We listen. We trace it back — through language 🗣️, through lineage 👵🏼👩🏻🧑🏼, through the nervous system 🧠 — until what once felt impossible to unravel begins to soften. Each knot has a story 📿 And when we witness it without fear or force, what’s been tightly wound for generations begins to unwind. 🕊️ You weren’t broken. You were just tangled in what wasn’t yours to carry. And now, piece by piece, you’re coming home to yourself again. 🌸

What Would You Say Yes to, if You Trusted That Life Would Catch You?

🪞 “What would I say yes to, if I trusted that life would catch me?” So many women are asking themselves this — quietly. But instead of listening for the answer, they sign up for another “proven system,” another promise of “high-ticket success,” another formula wrapped in someone else’s voice. Here’s the truth that’s rarely spoken out loud in this industry: 🤍 The coaching and healing world has normalized disconnection. Disconnection from soul. From ancestral truth. From inner knowing. From your own language. You’re taught to override your body. Ignore your resistance. Push past your inner yes or no. All in the name of “success.” Of finally getting it “right.” But here’s the danger in that: You begin to repeat someone else’s path — a path that wasn’t built for your nervous system, your lineage, or your deep feminine intelligence. You mimic their voice. Their strategy. Their structure. And soon, your real self gets buried under performance. And what happens then? Your energy fades. Your gallbladder clenches. Your nervous system burns out. You think you are the problem. But the real problem is a model that teaches imitation over integration. 🌿 My way is different. I help you unravel. Unhook. Deconstruct. I decode the language you speak — the spoken and unspoken stories passed down to you. We listen to what your body is really saying. We liberate what’s systemically stuck. We replant truth in the soil of your own voice. Because when you return to your own frequency… You no longer chase. You choose. ✨ What would you say yes to, if you trusted that life — your life — would catch you?

From the Red Carpet in Hollywood to Real Soul Purpose: The Passionistas Journey

✨ What if the dream everyone chases… was never your dream at all? This week on ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations, I sit down with two extraordinary women who walked away from the Hollywood machine — from Oscar campaigns, post-production on Harry Potter and The Matrix, and high-powered success — to answer the call of something deeper. 🎙️ Amy and Nancy Harrington, the powerhouse sisters behind The Passionistas Project, share the sacred pivot that changed everything. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has ever: — felt out of alignment with “success” — longed to start over but felt afraid — needed a reminder that passion, purpose, and truth are more valuable than prestige ⚡ Hear how they gave up the spotlight to follow their soul’s calling — and why it’s never too late to begin again. 💛 Tune in and claim your permission slip to live the life you were meant for. #PassionOverPrestige #ColliTalksPodcast #SacredPivot #TruthTellers #WomenWhoStartOver #FromHollywoodToHealing #ThePassionistasProject

Time for a Cool Shift

✨ A Quiet Shift That Changed Everything For years, I believed that helping people meant giving them answers. Solving the puzzle. Fixing what was broken. But over time — and with hundreds of hours guiding clients through systemic work, trauma resolution, and deep pattern recognition — something shifted. I realized: 🌿 People don’t need fixing. They need to be seen in the systems that shaped them. They need someone who can decode what they’ve always carried — the invisible loyalties, the generational burdens, the patterns they couldn’t name. This was a pivotal shift in my work. From doing for to holding space with. From guiding through strategy to guiding through truth. Today, I no longer work from a place of urgency, reactivity, or surface-level goals. I work from the root. 🌱 The pattern beneath the pattern. The language behind the symptoms. And it’s changing everything for my clients — 💫 from long-standing burnout to relationship clarity, 💫 from self-sabotage to self-honoring decisions, 💫 from survival roles to soul-led living. If you’ve been working hard to heal, to shift, to grow… But something still feels stuck — It may not be you. It may be what you're entangled with. Let’s bring it into the light. 🌕 #FamilyConstellations #SystemicHealing #RootCauseCoach #TraumaInformedBusiness

The One Thing I'll Never Do

💡 Here’s one thing I’ll never do in my business — and why it might just change yours… I will never push people into transformation. I will never pressure someone to work with me. I will never force a breakthrough before it’s ready to bloom. 🌿 Why? Because real transformation cannot be rushed. It doesn’t respond to urgency — it responds to truth, to safety, to sacred timing. ⏳✨ After decades of guiding women through systemic trauma, ancestral wounding, and the heartbreak of self-sabotage… I’ve learned this: What’s forced doesn’t last. What’s revealed with love changes everything. 🕊️ This is why I don’t do hype. I don’t do manipulation. I don’t pretend healing is a three-step formula or a five-day fix. Instead, I listen. I hold sacred space. I trust the soul’s rhythm over the algorithm. 🌸 If you’re a woman who’s tired of being pushed, performing, or pretending… I invite you into a space where nothing is forced — but everything is revealed. This is my way. And if it resonates — maybe it’s your way too. Let’s walk it together. Your soul already knows. 🌙 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Anxiety Robs You of Your Present While Trying to Promise You of Your Future ~ Apostle Emmanuel Adewusi

“Anxiety robs you of your present while trying to promise you of your future.” — Apostle Emmanuel Adewusi We’ve been sold a popular belief — one that many high-achievers, leaders, and healers silently live by: 👉 “If you’re feeling anxious, you need to control more. Think smarter. Fix it. Plan it. Push through it.” But what if I told you the exact opposite is true? Managing anxiety is out. Meeting it is in. The more we try to control the future, the more disconnected we become from our present. And the more we “manage” anxiety like it’s a flaw to fix, the more we silence the part of us that’s simply asking: Am I safe right now? 🌀 A different paradigm: In my work in systemic trauma, ancestral patterning, and self-sabotage, I see this constantly: Anxiety isn’t weakness. It’s intelligence. It’s your nervous system whispering, “Something inside still feels unresolved.” And it often has deep roots — not just from your lived experience, but from inherited survival strategies, buried emotion, and internalized roles that were never yours to carry. 🔄 So let me offer this: Forget about controlling anxiety to create success. What you really want is nervous system safety so you can allow success. This is the foundation of true leadership, creativity, and impact. If anxiety is running in the background of your days, your relationships, or your work — not because you’re doing something wrong, but because something in your system is trying to keep you safe — let’s talk. My approach? I help you identify the hidden roots of your anxiety — from family entanglements to inner child wounds — so you can finally stop managing symptoms… and start living from wholeness. Let’s reclaim your now — together. #TraumaInformed #Anxiety #Leadership #SelfSabotage #SystemicHealing #EmotionalIntelligence #NervousSystemSupport #SomaticHealing #SelfLeadership #LinkedInTherapist #InnerWork #TransformationalCoaching

Unlocking the Body's Silent Language: Pain Carries Essential Information

In this episode of ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations, I,

Colli Christante, the ✨creator, 🎧producer, and 🎤host — explore the profound intelligence of the body and the hidden messages pain carries. Drawing from my own lived experience and the teachings of mentors who’ve shaped my path 🌀, I share how pain is more than just physical — it's often the voice of the soul 🕊️, speaking through the fascia, the tissue of the soul. We’ll journey into how our bodies hold ancestral memories 🧬, unspoken truths 🤐, and emotional imprints — and how releasing what’s trapped in the fascia can bring both physical relief and emotional freedom 💧. You'll also hear steps to help you access the body’s vibrational language 🎶, and I invite you to surrender 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽, breathe 🌬️, and come home to yourself. This episode is an invitation to embrace your body’s innate wisdom and begin a transformative journey toward inner peace 🧘🏼‍♀️ and soul understanding 🌿.

Why I Do This Work

Why I Do This Work I never set out to become a healer. I became one because I had to. Because the pain in my body, the ache in my soul, the confusion in my mind - - they wouldn’t let me go.I come from a lineage of women who gave up their voice to be loved, who abandoned their truth to belong. I was born into silence, into secrets. And as a child, I felt everything. I carried what wasn’t mine. I stayed small to keep others safe. I performed strength while inside I was breaking.No one taught me how to listen to my body. No one showed me how to speak the language of my nervous system. No one told me that what I was feeling — the panic, the tight chest, the spasms of pain — was wisdom trapped beneath trauma.I found Specialized Kinesiology, NLP, Touch for Health, Psych-K, Family Constellation, Systemic Trauma, and eventually my own soul’s voice through sheer necessity. I needed to remember who I was beneath the roles, the expectations, the survival.The deeper I went, the more I realized: The body doesn’t lie. The soul remembers. The patterns we carry are not always ours, but they are ours to heal.I’ve now spent decades decoding the hidden language of pain, tension, illness, sabotage, and stuckness — not from a textbook, but from living inside it. I’ve studied, practiced, cried, screamed, healed, and helped others do the same.And this is why I do what I do. Because too many women are still trapped in stories that aren’t theirs. Too many are repeating old cycles while wondering what’s wrong with me? Too many are listening to “experts” with no lived experience, just memorized scripts and pretty certifications. Too many are silently suffering, disconnected from their body, their truth, and their power.I don’t offer quick fixes. I walk beside you through the hard, the hidden, and the holy. I listen to what’s not being said. I hold space for what was buried to rise. I help you come home  - - systemically, ancestrally, spiritually, and somatically  - - to the you that was always there.This is not just work. This is sacred devotion. This is my legacy.And I’m here, when you’re ready. Colli#HealingWithColli #SystemicTrauma #FamilyConstellations #SomaticHealing #WomenWhoKnow #YouAreNotAlone #ComeHomeToYourself #GenerationalHealing #HealingIsSacred--

When Your Body Speaks What Words Cannot

Here’s the most common struggle I see among women who are awakening to their truth: They think they need to push through the pain, hold it all together, and “stay strong.” They keep showing up, smiling, supporting others… all while secretly unraveling inside. 😔💔 This is especially true for the ones who are sensitive, intuitive, and deeply wise — the ones others rely on. The ones who’ve held the family together. Who’ve kept the peace. Who’ve swallowed their truth to belong. And yet, behind closed doors? They’re having sleepless nights. Aching joints. Spasms in their back and heartbreak in their chest. Their body is speaking, and no one’s listening. Not even them. 😢🌀 Why? Because they’ve been conditioned to believe that “doing more” is the only way out. That if they just fix their schedule, get more clients, or hustle harder, the pain will pass. 🏃‍♀️💼 And when they do reach out for support, they’re often met with surface-level advice from people who’ve read the books, collected the certifications, and memorized the ABCs of transformation — but haven’t actually lived the deep descent and reclamation required to hold another through it. 📚🚫 Here’s the truth: The pain isn’t a problem to be fixed. It’s a pattern to be revealed. 🧬✨ Your body is the gateway to what’s been buried systemically — grief, guilt, unspoken vows, ancestral entanglements. These hidden patterns don’t respond to willpower or mindset hacks. They require reverence. They require deep, intuitive witnessing. 🌿🕊️ This is the work I do. 🔍🌀 Together, we decode the silent language of your body and your lineage. We untangle the systemic roots that have kept you loyal to suffering. We gently bring the hidden story to light… so your system can finally rest, realign, and reclaim its voice. 🧘‍♀️🌺 You’re not broken. You’re carrying too much that was never yours to hold. 💞 And you don’t have to carry it anymore. If this speaks to you, I see you. I honour you. And when you’re ready — we begin. 💫🤲

Disconnected From Your Desire?

✨ What if you’re not broken… just disconnected from your desire? For the longest time, I thought I needed to work harder. Fix something. Heal faster. Do it all just right. But the truth is — I wasn’t broken. I was over-adapted. Over-responsible. So emotionally fluent in everyone else’s needs… that I forgot I had my own. And maybe that’s you too? 💫 You built a life that looks “fine.” You’re strong. Capable. Caring. But under it all… You can’t feel what you want anymore. Here’s what I know now: The return of desire is the beginning of transformation. But desire doesn’t come from pushing. It comes from remembering who you are beneath all the survival roles. 🌿 The mother. The good girl. The loyal partner. The peacemaker. All of them had their place ... But none of them are the full you. What you think you need: To fix, to manage, to shrink the ache. What you actually need: To be witnessed. To be met. To rewire the nervous system that learned love was only earned through sacrifice. This is the work I do ... And it’s not about “healing” as much as it is reclaiming. 🕊️ Your joy. 🕯️ Your sensuality. 🔥 Your truth. 🌙 Your sacred timing. If your desire has gone quiet — it hasn’t left. It’s waiting for a safer home inside you. Let’s build that together. 📩 More to come in late September. To stay close to this — email me: innerexpression88@gmail.com You don’t need to hold back anymore. You just need to come home. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Your Nervous System Was Never Taught to Rest

🌿 You Didn’t Fail at Regulating Your Nervous System 🌙 You didn’t fail at being calm. You didn’t fail at being strong. You didn’t fail at holding it all together. 💔 Your nervous system was never taught how to rest. It learned survival. It learned hypervigilance. It learned to read the room instead of feel safe in your own body. And maybe — like me — you grew up in a home where the adults were fractured. Where there was no space for your emotions, your magic, your voice. Where even joy felt dangerous. Where tenderness wasn’t modeled… and rest was a luxury nobody could afford. So your body adapted. You got good at carrying it all. At freezing the ache. At performing calm while your soul was screaming. And now… maybe you're feeling the flatness. The exhaustion. The tears that don’t even know where they come from. But hear this: ✨ It’s never too late to receive the repair you didn’t get. 🌸 It’s never too late to learn how to feel safe inside your own body. 🌿 It’s never too late to reparent your nervous system — with love, ritual, and slow devotion. This is the work I do. 🤲 I help women and men unhook from inherited trauma, invisible contracts, and systemic self-betrayal — so they can come home to their body, their voice, and their sacred truth. 🕊️ You don’t have to navigate this alone. If something in your soul whispered “this is me”… I invite you to reach out. 💌 🌀 Sessions now open. 📩 Email: innerexpression88@gmail.com Let’s begin gently. Let’s begin now. 🌙 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Hit Something Deep

Last week’s post "Nobody Has it Better Than You - They Just Present it That Way" hit something deep — Messages poured in from women and men, quietly saying: “This is exactly what I’m living.” “I thought it was just me.” “You put words to something I’ve never been able to explain.” If you’re feeling flat, disconnected, or emotionally numb — even while your life on the outside looks “fine” ... this isn’t a flaw. It’s a threshold. It means your survival self is tired. It means a deeper part of you — the real you — is ready to emerge. And yes, it feels strange, even painful, because no one teaches us how to unravel the systems and stories that taught us to mute our truth. But you don’t have to go it alone. This is the work I do ... I walk beside people as they release inherited roles, systemic loyalty, self-sabotage, and the old contracts that say: “Don’t feel too much. Don’t need too much. Don’t speak your truth.” If something in you stirred last week — if you felt seen — 💌 email me at innerexpression88@gmail.com More is coming in late September. And it might just be exactly what your nervous system has been longing for. You're not broken. You're waking up. And I’d be honored to support you in finding your way back to your feeling, your voice, and your power. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Sacred Terrain of Menopause: A Rite of Passage

✨ New Episode Release ✨ From the heart of “ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations” Created, produced, and hosted by yours truly — Colli Christante In this sacred conversation, I sit down with the wise and radiant Professor Irmgard Rauscher — a woman whose life’s work bridges clinical science, embodied wisdom, and ancestral knowing. Together, we journey into the often-unspoken terrain of perimenopause and menopause — not as a decline, but as an initiation. A crossing. A return to the wild knowing within. This episode is an offering — for the woman who feels alone in her symptoms, silenced in her shifts, or unsure of who she is becoming. We speak of the body as messenger, the soul as compass, and the seasons within that ask to be honoured, not managed. 🌕 If you’ve ever whispered, “Something is changing, and I don’t know who I am anymore,” this one’s for you. 🎙️ Tune in now to this truth-filled episode — where medicine meets mystery, and womanhood is reclaimed in full.

Did You Whisper "This is Me?"

If yesterday’s post made you whisper ‘this is me’… here’s the next truth you need to hear: “You’re not sabotaging your life - - you’re staying loyal to a system that told you love and safety had conditions.” 🧬💔 I want you to know something… ✨ You’re not stuck because you’re weak. ✨ You’re not sabotaging because you’re broken. ✨ You’re not failing — you’re faithful to a survival system that was wired into you through generations. As a Detective of Hidden Loyalties, Broken Connections Sabotage Patterns I decode language and ancestral patterns, I listen beyond what you say — I decode what your system actually believes about love, success, safety, and self-worth. Through the words you speak, I trace the threads of: Hidden loyalties to family pain Generational contracts you didn’t agree to Silent stories you've carried without knowing And I hold space to say: I see you. I include you. I acknowledge what’s been passed down — and what’s still running the show. 🌱 We get to the root. 🌱 We release what no longer belongs. 🌱 And we plant new seeds so you can finally blossom into who you were always meant to be. This is more than healing — it’s a soul retrieval. And you don’t have to do it alone. 💫 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Nobody Has it Better Than YOU ... They Just Present it That Way

Why So Many Women Are Feeling Emotionally Flatlined (Even When Life Looks “Fine”) 🌫️ Lately, almost every woman I’ve worked with has whispered some version of this: “I’m here… but I’m not really here.” “I don’t feel joy or grief — I just feel numb.” “I’ve worked so hard to build this life, and now that I have it… why do I feel nothing?” Here’s the truth: 💥 Nobody has it better than you — they only make it look that way. What you’re feeling isn’t failure. It’s a survival response. You’ve spent years doing all the right things — Showing up. Working hard. Keeping it together. Tending to everyone else’s needs while swallowing your own. And somewhere along the way… you got disconnected from you. Here’s why: 🔒 You learned to tone it down, shut it off, or overperform just to feel safe in your family or community system. 🧬 You inherited unspoken contracts like: “Don’t feel too much.” “Don’t need too much.” “Don’t shine too brightly.” “Don’t break the rules of our belonging.” So you got good at hiding. At surviving. At smiling through the ache. And now… the joy, the grief, the passion — it’s all behind a glass wall. But that flatness you feel isn’t the end. It’s the invitation. 💫 It’s your system saying: “I’m done surviving. I want to feel again.” This is the work I do. I help women unhook from inherited pain, systemic loyalty, and self-sabotage — so they can finally reclaim what they’ve been taught to fear: their truth, their voice, their feeling, their power. If you’ve been quietly thinking, “Something’s off… I just don’t feel like myself anymore” — You’re not broken. You’re waking up. And I would be honored to walk beside you as you come home to who you really are. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs