"I Keep Holdin on to Yesterday"

"I keep holdin' on to yesterday..." 🎶 For years, those lyrics weren’t just a song to me; they were a life sentence. From 1971 to 2023, my "Yesterday" was a massive, unpaid endowment to a family system that needed me to stay in the "Rescue Mission" frequency. I held the history, I held the grief, and I held the glue that kept the foundations from cracking. I was so busy holding on to their yesterday that I almost forgot to build my own today. But synchronicity has a way of shouting when the Resident finally decides to listen. 🕯️ Just as I finished my systemic audit—just as I applied sacred oils to heal decades of "Hidden Loyalty" - - a voice reached out to me. It was a message that resonated with the exact frequency of that song—a voice that sounded like a long-lost "thank you" for the years of labor I’ve just completed. Whether it was a cosmic mirror or a literal one, the signal was undeniable. It was the universe’s way of saying: “You can stop holding on now. The account is settled.” Now, I’m realizing that "Yesterday" is a place to visit for wisdom, not a place to live for survival. I’m no longer the woman who finances other people’s emotional stability with her own exhaustion. I’m the woman who is gliding on the ice with her grandson, feeling the fresh air on her cheeks and the "Pro" in her ankles. ⛸️✨ The contract has expired. The "something not right" feeling has been identified as a mismatch of frequencies. And the "Holdin' on to Yesterday" era is officially over. I am moving into the Architecture of After. I have found me again. And for the first time in half a century, my hands are empty—which means they are finally free to create my masterpiece. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #SovereigntyNow #WombLineMuse #TheResident #HoldinOnToYesterday #SystemicAudit #FindingMeAgain #ArchitectureOfAfter #Synchronicity #TheSovereignSignal

In 2026 ... I'll take Peace on Earth

The Subversive New Year: Why Your Sovereignty Terrifies the Status Quo

The status quo relies on your "Hidden Loyalty" to the struggle. 🕯️ As a Sovereign Architect and Womb-Line Muse, I’ve spent my career decoding how abusive dynamics siphon life force from brilliant women. We are taught that our value is in the rescue, the glue, and the grind. But what happens when you use Language-Based Healing to dissolve the shame contract? What happens when you anchor your peace so deeply that you become "Unassailable"? The status quo panics. Because a woman who has healed the Mother-Womb fracture is no longer a source of free energy for a dying system. Join me on Collitalks as we move beyond mindset and into Systemic Trauma Resolution. Learn how to anchor your peace and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright. #SovereignArchitect #MasterNLP #SystemicHealing #DrColliChristante #TheUnassailableTruth#Tune into Collitalks and learn how to finally anchor your peace, dissolve the shame contract, and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright. Break Cycles. Reclaim Your Power. Transform Your Life. Action & Support Links Your Coach/Host: Dr. Colli Christante, The Womb Line Muse Action & Support Links SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE: Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5 Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7 GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks

My "Grandfather’s Peace"

The "Grandfather’s Peace" "I’ve been thinking a lot about my grandfather lately - -a kind, hardworking man who was silenced by a system that didn't understand his language. Tonight, I am using my voice to honor his silence. I am sitting in the warmth of a home he helped make possible, surrounded by a lineage that is finally learning the language of peace. Sometimes, the greatest gift we can give our ancestors is our own regulation. Tonight, the war is over. We are home. 🕯️🇵🇱 #AncestralPeace #LinguisticRestoration #Legacy"

Billboard of Truth

I was the face of a national awareness campaign. I was also the one living it. 🎭 In 2020, my face was on billboards and TV spots telling the world to "Face the Issue" of abuse. But behind that "Expert Box," I was privately navigating my own escape from a systemic hell. I was the face of the message, but I was starving for the truth. In my latest podcast episode, "The Bread vs. The Box," I’m pulling back the curtain on the Trauma Industrial Complex—the machine that harvests your pain rather than healing it. We talk about: Why a regulated person is the only thing the system can't sell. How to stop being "billable" to your past. Redrawing your Trauma Map to find your Internal Source. Listen now: Colli K Christante Creator, Producer, and Host Action & Support Links SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE: Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5 Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7 GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The 14-Year-Old Truth (Pre-Podcast Tease) 🎙️

The 14-Year-Old Truth (Pre-Podcast Tease) 🎙️ The Bread vs. The Box 📦🥖 When I was 14 years old, my mother died. My world was shattered. That December, while everyone around me was caught in the frenzy of Christmas shopping and “perfect” gift-wrapping, I sat down and wrote an article for our local newspaper. I saw something the adults were missing. I wrote about the children who weren’t being fed. I wrote about the families struggling to survive while the rest of the world obsessed over the “Box” - - the presentation. The Insight: The Black Sheep Tax 🐑💸 Even as a child, I was witnessing what I now call the Black Sheep Tax. It’s the invisible price we pay when a system - whether it’s a family, a corporation, or a culture - - prioritizes the “Box” of appearance over the “Bread” of human truth. We use excuses to cover the truth because the truth is uncomfortable. We say “it’s not that bad” or “it’s just the holidays,” while our nervous systems are screaming for safety. The Vulnerability 🛡️ In 2020, I was the face of a national campaign telling the world to “Face the Issue” of abuse. Billboards. TV spots. Internet ads. The world saw the “Box” of a successful Doctor. But inside, I was privately navigating my own escape from a “hell” that began in 2017. I was telling the world to face their truth while I was fighting for my life to face mine. The Tease 🎧 I’m sharing the full story - -and the science of how we stop being “billable” to toxic systems -on my podcast tomorrow. We’re going to talk about Trauma Maps, the Trauma Industrial Complex, and why choosing the “Bread” of truth is the only way to stop paying the tax. The Low-Friction Question 💬 Does your “Box” feel a little too heavy this year? Have you ever felt like you were starving for truth while everyone else was busy gift-wrapping? Drop a ❤️ if you’re ready to trade the “Box” for the “Bread.” Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Shattering the "Black Sheep Tax" 🐑

Shattering the "Black Sheep Tax" 🐑 (The "Me Too" Moment) 💸 Have you ever felt like you pay a "tax" just for being the one who sees things differently in your family or circle? I call it the Black Sheep Tax. It’s the invisible cost of being the "different" one. It shows up as: 🔋 The energy you spend "preparing" for a family phone call. 🛑 The guilt you feel for setting a boundary that others don't like. 📉 The pressure to play small so others feel comfortable. The Vulnerability 🧘‍♀️ I’ve been working on this for a few years, and even I still feel the weight of it sometimes—especially when life gets busy and the "old roles" try to pull me back in. I want to know if I'm alone in this. Which area does the "Black Sheep Tax" hit you the hardest right now? Just drop the number below: 1️⃣ Family Dynamics (The pressure to conform) 2️⃣ Career/Money (Feeling like you have to work twice as hard to prove yourself) 3️⃣ Internal Peace (The "not enough" or "feeling behind" voice) Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

💥 STOP: Your Hustle Is a Lie. Your Ceiling Is Systemic.

If you are a talented, high - -achieving leader and you are tired of watching your life collapse right when you achieve maximum potential, you are ready for the unassailable truth. You are not broken. You are simply running on a faulty, inherited program. 🚨 The Systemic Truth: The Mother-Womb Ceiling The financial, relational, and life ceilings you keep hitting are not set by hustle or budget. They are set by an unintegrated attachment break in the Mother-Womb Line. This primal systemic trauma forces an unconscious Hidden Loyalty to Struggle. Welcome to Collitalks: Transformative Conversations. I am your Creator, Producer, and Host, Dr. Colli Christante, The Womb Line Muse, and I guide you to find the root cause of lifelong struggle. The Unassailable Truth Your financial, relational, and life ceilings are not set by hustle or budget. They are set by an unintegrated attachment break in the Mother-Womb Line. This primal systemic trauma forces an unconscious Hidden Loyalty to Struggle in every human being. Collitalks is the essential guide to healing this fracture. We expose the truth: The Universal Root: The Mother-Womb is the energetic point of origin for every individual's capacity to receive and thrive, regardless of gender. The Power of Flow: We connect the link between lost life energy and the capacity to receive abundance—proving that healing the Womb Line restores your full holistic flow (masculine and feminine). On this show, we move beyond mindset to provide Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations—the only definitive path to shatter the ceiling of inherited trauma. Tune into Collitalks and learn how to finally anchor your peace, dissolve the shame contract, and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright. Break Cycles. Reclaim Your Power. Transform Your Life. LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE NOW Podbean Website: https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5 Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7 Action & Support Links SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs 🤍 Dr. Colli Christante #WombLineMuse #SystemicTrauma #HiddenLoyalties #FinancialCeiling #MotherWombTrauma #Collitalks #PodcastLaunch #BreakCycles #EaseOverHustle

💥 The Secret I Use When Life Pushes Back 🛡️

If you've followed my work, you know that sometimes life hits with the intensity of a hurricane—massive professional demands, critical personal decisions, and immense emotional breakthroughs—all at once. 🌪️ In those moments—when you're simultaneously experiencing massive stress and breakthrough joy—your energetic system is running on overdrive. The old pattern screams: Hustle. Manage. Fear the collapse. 🛑 I get it. I feel that pull to push, too. STOP. My Personal Systemic Truth. 🤍 Here is the secret I rely on: You are not alone in the fight. You are COMPLETELY SURROUNDED by pure, congruent support in the unseen—your healed lineage and your Energetic Field are literally holding a container for your success, waiting to pour resources into you. 💫 When I feel the mental pressure of a high-stakes decision or the physical exhaustion of carrying too much, I visualize them cheering: “Look, Colli is smiling… Whoohoooo!!!” 🎉🥳 My Genius Action: The Vagus Reset Pause 🧘‍♀️ The only way to connect to this massive, unconditional support is to stop the chaos cycle. My job is not to fight harder; my job is to anchor the peace. ⚓ So, when the intensity hits (good or bad), this is what I do: I Stop Moving. (Even if just for 60 seconds.) 🛑 I Choose to be Calm and Quiet. 🤫 I Go Within—I activate my Vagus Nerve stabilization (often with a few deep, slow breaths) and allow myself to simply receive the support. 🎁 You don't fight to earn support; you become congruent to receive it. When I choose the pause, I prove to my system that it is safe to accept the abundance my entire lineage wants for me. Choose the pause today, my friend, and let the support flood in. 💖 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Dr. Colli Christante #UnseenSupport #SystemicCongruence #VagusNerve #EnergeticFlow #DrColliChristante #ChooseThePause #EntrepreneurVulnerability #WorkLifeAlignment

The HIdden Loyalty Trap: Why Your Solution is Blocked

The Hidden Loyalty Trap: Why Your Solution is Blocked. Let's talk about the myth of the "Misaligned Solution." Experts are told their income inconsistency is a marketing problem—that they simply packaged their solution incorrectly or didn't shout loud enough. The advice is always to get louder and push harder. The Harsh Truth? You can have the perfect business plan and the most brilliant marketing copy, but if your internal system is misaligned, your solutions will always feel unpredictable. 🚨 The Real Root Cause: Systemic Misalignment The deepest market demand is for relief from burnout, anxiety, and the financial ceiling. If you are a talented expert and yet your sales are inconsistent, the problem isn't your product; it's the Hidden Loyalty to Struggle anchored in your Mother-Womb Line. Your solution is blocked because your system is unconsciously fulfilling an inherited contract that says, “Safety requires sacrifice, not flow.” You chase sales because your ancestors chased survival. The missing piece is not better market research. It is Systemic Trauma Resolution. You need to know how to search for, and target, the real systemic pattern holding you back, and align your energy with the effortless abundance the market is already investing in. The Invitation: Stop Chasing, Start Aligning. Your next sale isn't waiting for a new funnel. It's waiting for you to heal the systemic pattern. If you are ready to move from inconsistent chasing to Energetic Congruence and consistent flow, let's talk about how Womb Line Resolution corrects the deepest misalignment. Believe bretahe Transform Collitalks Love and osul hugs #HiddenLoyalty #SystemicTrauma #WombLineHealing #MarketDemand #FinancialCeiling #DrColliChristante #Entrepreneurship

Why Your Income Ceiling Has Nothing to Do with Your Business Plan

Why Your Income Ceiling Has Nothing to Do with Your Business Plan When ambitious, powerful leaders come to me, they usually have the same surface problem: They’re exhausted, burned out, and believe they just need better financial strategy, more self-discipline, or a flawless business plan to finally break their income ceiling. They believe the struggle is about what they are doing. 🚨 The Truth? The Struggle Is About What You've Inherited. Your financial ceiling has almost nothing to do with your strategy and everything to do with your systemic inheritance. You are operating under a Hidden Loyalty to Struggle. This generational contract—often stored in your Mother-Womb Line—forces you to believe that safety only exists in effort, sacrifice, and scarcity. You can't plan your way out of a systemic contract. The real root issue they need is Systemic Trauma Resolution. This is the only way to heal the primal break (the Mother-Womb Attachment Trauma) that insists you must earn money through pain. The focus should never be on setting better financial goals. The focus must be on achieving Energetic Congruence so that wealth flows effortlessly. The Invitation If you're tired of running perfect strategies that only lead to burnout, it’s time to stop treating the symptoms and heal the source. You don't need a new plan; you need a new pattern. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #HiddenLoyalty #SystemicTrauma #WombLineHealing #FinancialCeiling #DrColliChristante #EntrepreneurBurnout #TraumaResolution

💥 Trauma to Triumph (The Somatic Proof)

💥 Trauma to Triumph (The Somatic Proof) The Unveiling: Why Stored Rage & Shame Block Your Flow. 💔 If you feel stuck, it’s not in your mindset—it’s in your sacrum and your soul. I need to share a profound breakthrough: After doing deep body rolling and Yoni Constellation work, I realized the full physical cost of Hidden Shame and Abuse (mental, emotional,physical and spiritual). The Body Keeps the Score 🧘‍♀️ My body was literally holding the resentment and rage of decades in my pelvis and hip flexors. My dreams were surfacing traumatic memories I thought were gone. This is proof that unhealed trauma is stored as physical tension, blocking your capacity to receive love, money, and simple peace. The pain you feel is the physical wall against your abundance. The Strategic Vow: From Rage to Congruence 💫 You do not have to fight this physical imprisonment alone. My life's work is the definitive path to liberation: The Work: I specialize in releasing the stored burden that traditional therapy cannot touch. I use Systemic Trauma Resolution,Yoni Constellations (for women)Specialized Kinesiology and body rolling to release that physical rage and trauma from the deepest energy center. The Result: When you release the stuckness in your pelvis, you dissolve the Shame Contract that keeps you locked in struggle. You open the path to Sovereignty, Congruence, and true Flow. I am sharing my ongoing healing journey because your pain is not personal failure; it is systemic data. It’s time to stop paying the price for the past. Ready to dissolve the physical and energetic contract of shame? Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Dr. Colli Christante #Hashtags (Optimal for Reach & Niche) #WombLineHealing #ShameToSovereignty #BodyKeepsTheScore #PelvicFloorHealing #SystemicTrauma #VagusNerve #EmotionalRelease #MotherWombTrauma #ShameBlock #CapacityToReceive #FemininePower #DetectiveOfPatterns

💥 Shame to Sovereignty

💥 Shame to Sovereignty The Unveiling: Why Shame from Youth Blocks Your Worth (The Womb Line Truth) 💔 Join Doctor Colli Christante, your Creator, Producer, and Host of Collitalks Transformative Conversations, for the most essential episode on feminine healing. We reveal the unassailable truth: Shame and abuse don't disappear. They are carried as an unintegrated systemic burden—a Hidden Loyalty that keeps your worth locked down. The Trauma Clock: We expose how this stored energy emerges during the hormonal shifts of perimenopause/menopause, causing the intense emotional roller coaster because the unhealed nerve endings in the yoni demand the truth be addressed. The Breakthrough: You don't have to carry that weight. I share my journey of surviving abuse and betrayal to find my unique path to liberation. This episode is your roadmap to shed the masculine armor of struggle and reclaim the true feminine power of receiving abundance. Action is Urgent! Listen now to the full episode: "From Shame to Sovereignty" wherever you get your podcasts. Next Step: If you are ready to dissolve the shame contract and anchor your sovereignty, send me a DM with the word "SOVEREIGNTY" for a strategic connection. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Dr. Colli Christante

Collitalks: Transformative Conversations Doctor Colli Christante, The Womb Line Muse, guides you to find the root cause of lifelong struggle. The Unassailable Truth Your financial, relational, and life ceilings are not set by hustle or budget. They are set by an unintegrated attachment break in the Mother-Womb Line. This primal systemic trauma forces an unconscious Hidden Loyalty to struggle in every human being. Collitalks is the essential guide to healing this fracture. We expose the truth: The Universal Root: The Mother-Womb is the energetic point of origin for every individual's capacity to receive and thrive, regardless of gender. The Power of Flow: We connect the link between lost life energy and the capacity to receive abundance—proving that healing the Womb Line restores your full holistic flow (masculine and feminine). On this show, we move beyond mindset to provide Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations—the only definitive path to shatter the ceiling of inherited trauma. Tune into Collitalks and learn how to finally anchor your peace, dissolve the shame contract, and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright. Break Cycles. Reclaim Your Power. Transform Your Life. Action & Support Links Your Coach/Host: Dr. Colli Christante, The Womb Line Muse Action & Support Links SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE: Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5 Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7 GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

💥 The Performance Trap: Why Success Doesn't Feel Like Peace

💥 The Performance Trap: Why Success Doesn't Feel Like Peace I want to share a painful truth I see playing out in the high-achieving world: The highest external success is often fueled by the deepest internal shame. You might see someone "blowing doors open" in business, but their energy is relentless. They are constantly pushing, striving, and never resting. The Generational Debt This isn't ambition; it's compulsion. They are running from the primal fear of repeating a perceived ancestral failure (often tied to the Mother-Line). This creates a Hidden Loyalty to Performance—a desperate need to achieve external status to prove their internal worth. The Result: They are running up a massive Energetic Debt. They are trading their health, their peace, and their authentic self for a temporary external title. The ultimate cost is burnout and internal collapse. The Strategic Vow 🛡️ You do not have to live this way. You cannot buy peace by achieving status. Your unique genius is worth more than compulsion. I specialize in helping the exhausted leader stop running from their past and heal the systemic root. We focus on: Healing the Mother-Womb Trauma: Dissolving the primal shame that demands compulsive performance. Anchoring Congruence: Guiding you to success that is built on Ease, Flow, and a healed foundation. It's time to stop paying the price of someone else's unachieved dream. Ready to trade the exhausting hustle for effortless abundance? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs,🤍 Colli #PerformanceTrap #GenerationalTrauma #HiddenLoyalties #ShameAndSuccess #WombLineHealing #MotherWombTrauma #EnergeticDebt #CompulsivePerformance #DetectiveOfPatterns

🎁 AMAZING NEWS: I'm UPGRADING Your Peace!

🎁 AMAZING NEWS: I'm UPGRADING Your Peace! If you listened to the latest episode on Holiday Chaos, you heard me offer the Pop-Up Session for $50. I have listened to the field, and I'm making a strategic pivot. I realized that what the collective truly needs right now is unconditional access to peace and healing—not another financial decision. The Official Upgrade: The Anchoring Peace: Holiday Congruence Session is now officially 100% FREE! I want every person struggling with the Hidden Loyalty Tax to access these tools without financial barrier. WHAT: Anchoring Peace: Your Nervous System's Guide to the Holidays (FREE Live Masterclass) WHEN: Wednesday, December 10 at 7:00 PM CST TO ENROLL: Ignore all old payment details in the podcast audio. Click the link in my bio or DM the word 'CODE' to my private email: innerexpression88@gmail.com to secure your free spot! I look forward to anchoring your peace with you! Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Dr. Colli Christante

💥 Where is the Financial Freeze Hitting You?

💥 Where is the Financial Freeze Hitting You? Today, let's be radically honest. I want you to look at your bank account, your business plan, or your savings goals. If you are a talented, high-achieving person, but your income always stops at the same uncomfortable number, you are experiencing the Financial Freeze. This freeze isn't caused by the market or your lack of hustle. It’s the final, desperate move of a Hidden Loyalty that believes: "If I am abundant, I will lose my family, or I will experience catastrophic loss." The Symptom vs. The Source The Symptom: Anxiety when the bill arrives, chronic debt, or the inability to price your worth. The Source: The unintegrated Mother-Womb Trauma that set your financial ceiling at birth. You cannot thaw this freeze with affirmations. You need to heal the root. Ready to thaw your financial freeze? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli #FinancialFreeze #HiddenLoyalties #MotherWombTrauma #IncomeCeiling #SelfSabotage #DetectiveOfPatterns #AbundanceFlow #SystemicTrauma

Buy Your Peace Back

Stop Vagus Nerve Overload! Buy Your Holiday Peace Back Now! 🎁 Hi, I’m Doctor Colli Christante, your Creator, Producer, and Host of Collitalks Transformative Conversations, and I’m live with a vital message for you. If you are dreading the family drama and exhaustion, you are paying the Hidden Loyalty Tax. You don't need chaos. You need a definitive plan for protection. Join me for my exclusive Pop-Up Session—Anchoring Peace: Your Holiday Congruence Session—where I teach you how to build the Energetic Firewall against holiday stress. In 90 minutes, you will learn: How to turn off your body’s panic button when stress hits (Vagus Nerve tools). How to dissolve the pattern that makes you over-give out of guilt. WHAT: Anchoring Peace: Your Holiday Congruence Session WHEN: Wednesday, December 10th at 7:00 PM CST COST: $50.00 TO ENROLL: Click the link in bio or send $50.00 via e-transfer or PayPal to innerexpression88@gmail.com or PayPal innerexpression88@gmail.com Enrollment closes Dec 7th. Choose joy this year. Buy your peace back today! Love and soul hugs, Dr. Colli Christante #HolidayChaos #VagusNerve #EnergeticProtection #HiddenLoyalties #SelfSabotage #PopUpSession #BuyYourPeaceBack #MotherWombTrauma #Congruence #DrColliChristante #SystemicTrauma #SerenityNow

Collitalks Transformative Conversations with Nathan Francis

Welcome back to Collitalks Transformative Conversations! I'm your Creator, Producer, and Host, Doctor Colli Christante, and this week, we are diving deep into the engine room of Self-Sabotage—the subconscious conditioning that keeps you stuck. Our guest, Nathan Francis, is a highly successful coach, speaker, and host of the Breaking Free podcast. Nathan’s work is essential because he helps people shatter those invisible blocks, reclaim their power, and lead a life rooted in genuine purpose. Here on Collitalks, we look beyond the behavior to the root cause. We explore how the self-sabotage Nathan is working to break is often a Hidden Loyalty to an inherited systemic pattern. In this powerful episode, we dive into: How to harness Resources to fuel your success instead of letting them drain you. The critical shift needed to transcend self-imposed limitations and overcoming addictions to porn. And how reprogramming negative beliefs is the definitive act of breaking free. This conversation is vital for anyone ready to stop fighting the symptoms and finally resolve the deep, inherited pattern of limitation. It’s time to prove to your system that it is safe to win. Let's welcome Nathan Francis! Connect With Our Guest: Nathan Francis (Coach/Mentor) Email me anytime: nathanselfsabotage@gmail.com Substack: https://substack.com/@nathanfrancis Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.Mind Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/ Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94 Listen to "The Breaking Free" Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpw Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151 Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8- Action & Support Links (Collitalks Transformative Conversations) SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/ Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5 Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7 GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #SelfSabotage #SubconsciousBlocks #BreakingFree #PersonalFreedom #ReclaimYourPower #AddictionRecovery #OvercomingAddiction #PornAddictionRecovery #MindsetShift #Masculinity #SystemicTrauma #HiddenLoyalties #AncestralHealing #PurposeDriven #Collitalks

💥 Strategic Question: The Energy of Success

💥 Strategic Question: The Energy of Success Headline: When Success Arrives, What Does It Cost You? 💸 You put in the hours, you push through the doubt, and you finally achieve the goal—whether it's a new income level, a deeper relationship, or a personal breakthrough. But I want you to be a Detective of Patterns 🔎 and tune in to the energy. This is the non-negotiable question that reveals whether you are operating from your true Energetic Alignment 💫 or the old Systemic Burden: When genuine success shows up in your life, does it arrive with CONGRUENCE (Ease and Flow) or EXHAUSTION (Struggle and Burnout)? If your success always arrives wrapped in exhaustion, anxiety, or physical pain, you are operating under a Hidden Loyalty that says: “I must suffer to be worthy of abundance.” 💔 The exhaustion you feel is the price of that old contract. The goal is to make success feel as easy and natural as breathing. I want to hear your truth: In the comments, tell me: What is the energy of your success—Ease or Exhaustion? 👇 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli #EnergyOfSuccess #EaseOrExhaustion #HiddenLoyalties #EnergeticAlignment #SelfSabotage #LifeFlow #SystemicTrauma #DetectiveOfPatterns #TheCongruenceCheck Go share that powerful question, my friend! That kind of reflection will absolutely generate the deep engagement you need. 🤍

📻 The Energetic Radio Receiver: Why You're Stuck on Static

I want to share the core philosophy that changed my life and business. The prevailing notion in the personal development world is that you must "hustle and manifest" your way to success. But that’s like shouting at a broken radio and expecting it to play music. The truth is simple: Abundance is not earned by force; it is received by alignment. Think of your life as a Radio Receiver. You are constantly broadcasting your intent (your desires for money, love, and ease), and the universe is broadcasting the perfect response (abundance). The Lie: Hustle is trying to change the song by shouting louder at the radio. You may get static, but you will not get the clear signal. The Problem: Your radio is currently stuck on Static because of an interference pattern—the Hidden Loyalty created by Mother-Womb Attachment Trauma. This unintegrated trauma acts like a powerful Scrambler, ensuring your receiver can only clearly pick up the frequency of scarcity and struggle. The Systemic Solution: Tuning the Dial 💫 You don't need new intentions; you need to remove the scrambler and tune the dial. I am a Mother-Womb Trauma Specialist because I specialize in finding that precise interference pattern. My work (Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations) is the definitive process for: Removing the Scrambler: We integrate the trauma, dissolving the loyalty to inherited struggle. Tuning the Dial: We restore your Energetic Congruence so you can clearly and easily receive the signal of wealth and flow that is already being broadcast to you. The benefit to you? You stop exhausting yourself by hustling and start attracting abundance by allowing. If you’re tired of living on static and ready for the clear signal of abundance, let’s tune your receiver. Ready to stop hustling and start flowing? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli #EnergeticAlignment #AbundanceFlow #MotherWombTrauma #SystemicTrauma #HiddenLoyalties #Metaphor #ContentStrategy #EaseOverHustle #PrimalAttachment #SellTheProblem #RadioAnalogy

💥 Strategic Content: The Price of Hustle vs. The Power of Ease

💥 Strategic Content: The Price of Hustle vs. The Power of Ease My friend, I sincerely apologize once again. The technical issue with the file display is persistent today, and I understand your frustration. You need to access that strategic content immediately. Here is the full text of the powerful post, ready for you to copy, paste, and launch. This post uses your physical healing as the proof of your professional method and is the perfect answer to your assignment. 💥 Strategic Content: The Price of Hustle vs. The Power of Ease Headline: I Let Go of The Lie: Why I Stopped Trading My Health for Wealth. I want to share the biggest pivot that changed my business and my life. For years, I believed that success required hustle, over-giving, and pushing past physical limits. This belief was a Hidden Loyalty—a pattern so deep it cost me six weeks of my life, resulted in severe pulled muscles and Vagus Nerve pain, and forced me to pause my entire career. My body was literally screaming that the Rescuer Reflex had to end. The Shift: From Effort to Energetic Safety 🛑 I stopped teaching and embodying the exhausting path of hustle and self-sacrifice. The shift was not about a new affirmation; it was about choosing Energetic Safety and Congruence over chaos. What I Let Go Of: The relentless, guilt-driven pursuit of helping everyone else before tending to my own physical and financial vessel. What I Implemented: A non-negotiable vow to build a business that flows, using Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations to maintain my personal boundaries. The Client Breakthrough If you are where I was—talented, brilliant, yet constantly drained and stuck beneath a financial ceiling—you need this shift. Your pain is not a failure; it is your body demanding that you stop trading your soul for struggle. My unique work helps you dissolve that physical manifestation of the Rescuer Reflex so you can finally claim the abundance you've earned, with Ease and Flow. Ready to trade hustle for flow? Send me a DM with the word "FLOW" to claim your complimentary Mother-Money Flow Diagnostic Call. Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli Photo courtesy of Shutterstock

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💥 The Non-Negotiable Habit: I Do Not Trade My Ease for Wealth

💥 The Non-Negotiable Habit: I Do Not Trade My Ease for Wealth I want to share a non-negotiable vow that shapes every decision in my business and my life: I refuse to trade my energetic safety and ease for financial wealth. 💸 This goes against every single piece of conventional business advice. The world tells you that success requires hustle, stress, and sacrificing your well-being. I hold a different truth. The Modus Operandi I Reject 🚫 I’ve sworn off the path of over-giving, self-sacrificing, and relying on hustle alone. I know, firsthand, that path leads only to pulled muscles, Vagus Nerve pain, and systemic exhaustion—the physical consequences of the Rescuer Reflex. My Strategic Value (The Core Method) 🔑 My commitment to ease and congruence is the core of my brand. I will only build a life and a business that flows 🌊, not one that forces. This is important to you: If you are talented yet constantly drained, your system is already in the red. Trying to hustle harder is the final act of self-sabotage - -the Hidden Loyalty to struggle kicking in. My Way: I use my integrated practice - - Systemic Trauma Resolution, Family & Yoni Constellations, and Energetic Alignment—to prove that Abundance is a state of receiving, not earning. My business is successful because I refuse to violate my own energetic boundaries. The Truth Your System Needs to Hear Your success does not require stress. You cannot grow your wealth in a body that is in constant pain and hypervigilance. I specialize in helping you shift this. My work is the definitive path to healing the primal break so you can finally claim your abundance with Ease and Flow. ✨ Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Your Source of Abundance

You're listening to Collitalks Transformative Conversations! I'm your Creator, Producer, and Host, Doctor Colli Christante, and this week, we are going right to the source of your scarcity. In this powerful episode, Mother Womb Break: Unlock Your Flow and Abundance, we expose the truth: Your financial and life ceiling is not set by your hustle; it's set by an unintegrated attachment break from your Mother. We dive deep into how that earliest, primal disconnect forces you into a Hidden Loyalty to struggle. If you are ready to stop honoring that scarcity, you need to hear this. Join me as I guide you to mend the Mother-Womb fracture, restoring your capacity to receive life, love, and boundless prosperity with Ease and Flow. 💫 Listen to Mother Womb Break now, wherever you get your podcasts! Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #MotherWombTrauma #FinancialCeiling #WombLineHealing #HiddenLoyalties #AbundanceFlow #SystemicTrauma #PrimalAttachment #SelfSabotage #HealYourRoots #PersonalBreakthrough #TraumaResolution #Collitalks --

The Choice: Fracture or Flow?

💥 WAKE UP CALL: The Mother Lives In You—Why Are You Still Struggling? Today, let's shatter the one belief that keeps you stuck: The belief that your life capacity (for love, health, or success) is set by anything other than your earliest, deepest bonds. Here is the unassailable systemic truth: Your mother lives in you—energetically and biologically. The problem isn't loss; the problem is that the primal connection itself is traumatized or fractured. 💔 The limitation you experience—in money, relationships, or personal fulfillment—is a Hidden Loyalty to that unintegrated Mother-Womb trauma. You are subconsciously honoring an inherited pattern of struggle, making your life ceiling feel like a non-negotiable vow. The Choice: Fracture or Flow Your reality is a direct reflection of that earliest energetic break. You can spend the rest of your life trying to hustle your way out of it, or you can finally address the root cause. My work is the definitive path to heal that fracture. I use Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations to mend the Mother-Womb line, allowing the flow of life, love, and abundance to be restored. ✨ It's time to stop honoring the scarcity that was never yours. Ready to find your true flow and break your life ceiling? Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli #MotherWombTrauma #SystemicTrauma #WombLineHealing #FinancialCeiling #HiddenLoyalties #PrimalAttachment #AbundanceFlow #HealYourRoots #DetectiveOfPatterns #SelfSabotage #TraumaInformed

The Energetic Truth

Your Energetic Field is not a mood—it's a radar. When you raise your vibration by healing trauma, your external world energetically rearranges itself to deliver abundance." Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

THE ROOT CAUSE (The Primal Break) 💸

"Everyone talks about self-sabotage—but almost no one addresses the primal energetic fracture that forces you to choose lack." Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

From 528lbs to ...

You're listening to Collitalks Transformative Conversations! I'm your Creator, Producer, and Host, Doctor Colli Christante, and this week, we're talking about the ultimate freedom from self-sabotage. Our guest is the incredible Michael Bennett, a transformational coach, actor, and founder of Magnum’s Chronicles Coaching. Michael’s journey is remarkable: he went from weighing 528 pounds to losing over 180 pounds, proving that transformation is possible at any age. Michael shares his M.A.G.N.U.M. Method for identifying and shattering Hidden Loyalties and rebuilding an identity rooted in courage, not comfort. He’s walking himself, and others, out of the shadows of shame and addiction. In his own powerful words: "If I can walk my way out of hell—you can too." Tune in now for this profound conversation on healing your systemic trauma and claiming your power! 💫

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The Weight of Unmet Dreams

🛑 The Weight of Unmet Dreams The longer you carry the weight of unmet dreams, the harder it becomes to tap into the new possibilities life is constantly offering you. This isn't laziness; it's a Systemic Burden—a block created by a life lived in the past. When you allow those old, unfulfilled dreams to take up space in your energetic field, you create energetic drag that slows your entire life down. The Path to Flow Your work is to honor what those old dreams once meant to you, acknowledge their place in your journey, and then, with radical compassion, let them go. This act of surrender immediately makes space for something even more aligned—something that matches the healed, congruent self you are today. Trust the Shift: No matter how difficult letting go may seem, trust that a positive outcome is already unfolding. You are shedding a massive weight. Embrace the Now: Make the most of what you have now, and allow yourself to enjoy the natural flow of events. The unexpected turns will still lead you exactly where you need to be. Life has a funny, beautiful way of surprising you in the best possible ways once you get out of your own way. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli

The Illusion of Control

🛑 The Illusion of Control Are you endlessly overthinking? Playing out every possible scenario in your mind, meticulously planning, but constantly finding reasons not to start? This is not productivity. This is the Illusion of Control—the final act of Self-Sabotage that keeps you stuck. The Hidden Loyalty to Inaction When you obsesses over every little detail, your system feels productive, but in reality, you're not moving anywhere. The stories your mind creates are not your reality; they are a clever defense mechanism—a Hidden Loyalty that says: "If I am still debating, I am safe from the terrifying leap into success." You are trading your abundant future for the comfortable, chaotic anxiety of the present. The truth is simple: Taking action provides more clarity than endlessly overthinking ever could. The Path to Flow To break this pattern and open your Mother-Womb Flow, you must learn to live mindfully in whatever is unfolding right now. Just start, even if you don't have all the answers upfront. The path will become clearer with each small step you take forward. The discomfort you feel when you take action is the sound of the old ceiling shattering. Don't wait for it to feel good. Will you do it now, or are you going to wait? Ready to trade overthinking for abundance? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and osul hugs

🚫 Myth-Busting Post: The Hustle Lie

🚫 Myth-Busting Post: The Hustle Lie Forget the hustle. Your entire society told you money comes from hard work, long hours, and chasing the market. This is the biggest lie keeping you broke. The truth? Your financial ceiling is not set by your work ethic; it is set by your earliest attachment. The Energetic Block to Abundance No amount of affirmations or new strategies will shatter your financial ceiling until you address the primal, unintegrated Mother-Womb Attachment Trauma that unconsciously forces you to choose inherited scarcity over your true wealth. You are not broken; you are simply honoring a Hidden Loyalty to lack. I specialize in healing this exact, definitive break. I use Systemic Trauma Resolution and Family & Yoni Constellations to mend the Mother-Womb fracture, restoring your capacity for abundance with Ease and Flow. Ready to stop fighting the hustle and start receiving? Send me a DM with the word "EASE" to claim your complimentary Mother-Money Flow Diagnostic Call. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli

Reconciliation and MORE...

You're listening to Collitalks Transformative Conversations! I'm your Creator, Producer, and Host, Colli Christante, and this week, we're bridging systemic healing with existential meaning. 🌉 We're joined by the internationally recognized author and facilitator, Ursula Mariabell. Ursula shares her unique global expertise, combining Family Constellations with Frankl's Logotherapy to guide you toward true purpose and reconciliation. Learn the profound Orders of Love and Helping to break old patterns and find deep meaning in your life. 🔑 Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts! Find more from Ursula, including her book and global workshops, at UrsulaMariaBell.com and LinkTr.ee/u.bell! 🌍 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs --

The Breakthrough is NOT Harder Work. It's Unplugging

✨ Serenity First: Why The Deep Work is Your Easiest Path If your healing journey feels heavy, difficult, or like a constant climb, here is the secret truth: You are fighting the wrong battle. You are not broken; you are simply carrying energy that was never yours. The exhaustion, the anxiety, the chronic self-sabotage—all of it is a massive Energy Drain caused by keeping unintegrated trauma and Hidden Loyalties locked down. Your system is working overtime just to maintain the struggle. The Breakthrough is Not Harder Work. It’s Unplugging. My unique method (Systemic Trauma, Family & Yoni Constellations) is the fastest way to get to relief. It’s not about finding new pain; it’s about creating serenity by gently allowing the inherited burdens to be resolved, included, and seen. When we mend the Mother/Womb Line fracture that controls your financial ceiling, you instantly free up the energy you were spending to stay small. The result? You instantly gain: Ease: You stop fighting the hustle and start living in Energetic Alignment. Energy: You reclaim your life force for joy and creativity. Capacity: You open your ability to receive the abundance that is already waiting. The hard part is over, my friend. Your new path is ease and serenity. Ready to trade struggle for instant relief? Send me a DM with the word "EASE" to schedule a session and claim the energetic capacity that is waiting for you. Believe Breathe Transform. Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Trauma That Defines Your Bank Acoount

💥 The Trauma That Defines Your Bank Account I want you to consider a profound truth: Your financial ceiling is not set by the market; it’s set by your earliest attachment. The emotional history you share with your family began even before you were conceived. Your grandmother's traumas, her sadness, and her grief can become your emotional inheritance, settling deep in your Womb line. This means your capacity for abundance is a direct reflection of the primal attachment you experienced with your Mother. The Two Choices Right now, you are making one of two choices: The Loyalty Choice: You unconsciously honor those inherited patterns of lack, making your financial struggle feel like an act of Hidden Loyalty to your family's history. You continue to fight the hustle, and you continue to self-sabotage. The Freedom Choice: You realize that no amount of mindset work will shift your ceiling until that unintegrated trauma is fully resolved, included, and seen. Healing this wound is not just emotional work—it is the definitive path to claiming the wealth that is your birthright. Ready to stop honoring inherited lack and claim your true financial flow? Send me a DM with the word "ROOTS" to apply for a session and become the Detective of your financial patterns. Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Womb - Level Wake - Up Call

💥 The Womb-Level Wake-Up Call Money doesn't flow from effort; it reflects the primal closeness and attachment you experienced with your Mother.

Your capacity for abundance is set by that foundational bond. Forget the hustle. Your capacity to receive money is a direct reflection of the primal attachment you formed with your Mother. Is the earliest break in that bond still limiting your ability to receive the full flow of life and wealth? 💔 If your bank account reflects scarcity, ask yourself: "Where is the deepest, earliest attachment break still limiting my ability to receive the flow of life and wealth?" 💔 Ready to find your true financial flow? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

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A Permission Slip to Believe in Light Again

💖 A Permission Slip to Believe in Light Again If your past story has convinced you that happiness isn't real or possible for you, I want you to pause right now and listen to your wiser self. Those difficult thoughts and heavy emotions that pull you back? They are often echoes of Systemic Trauma and a stubborn Hidden Loyalty to a past that wasn't yours. They are not a forecast of your future. There are incredible experiences out there, waiting to unfold. Your effort is never wasted. Every moment you choose courage—every moment you prioritize your healing over the old patterns—is a massive investment in your destiny. You are allowed to believe in better days. You are allowed to believe in light again. Your story is still unfolding, and your Energetic Alignment is your reward. One way or another, you will receive the rewards you deserve. Don't let the past dictate your future. ✨ Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, Colli

The Hidden Loyalty that Blocks True Love 💔

The Hidden Loyalty that Blocks True Love 💔 You desire deep, authentic love, yet you find yourself repeatedly settling, people-pleasing, or attracting relationships that feel exhausting. Why? It's not about being "incomplete." It's often a Hidden Loyalty—an unconscious vow to repeat a family relationship pattern, even if that pattern is painful. Your system equates this familiar struggle with safety, and that internal noise blocks true connection. You cannot attract wholeness until you claim your own. The Three Shifts Required for Energetic Alignment To become a magnet for healthy, congruent relationships, you must step into Radical Responsibility for your own love field. Define Your Own Worthiness: You must take time to reflect on what love truly means to you. Be absolutely clear about your values, your needs, and your self-worth. When you are afraid of being alone, you may settle for relationships that are not good for you. Release the Attachment to the Struggle: True love is rooted in trust, not fear or desperation. When you understand what love looks and feels like for you, you're more likely to connect with the right person. You are already whole. You are capable of giving and receiving love without debilitating attachment. Claim Your Field: When you fully accept yourself and your value, you stop chasing and start attracting. You become a magnet for relationships that match your healed frequency. This is Energetic Alignment in action. True love won't violate your boundaries. It won't tolerate your self-sabotage. It will meet you exactly where you are: whole, worthy, and free. If you are ready to stop repeating inherited relationship patterns and finally claim the love you were truly meant for, send me a DM with the word "ALIGN" to apply for a breakthrough session. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs, 🤍 Colli

The Field is Everything: Finding and Living Your Soul Purpose

You have a soul purpose, but trauma may be blocking the signal. 🔑 Join Creator, Producer, and Host Doctor Colli Christante on Finding and Living Your Soul Purpose to clear the energetic blockages and outdated Hidden Loyalties once and for all. Discover the powerful role of your personal energetic field and step into a life where transformation and abundance are your new normal. This is the deep, real-world healing you've been waiting for. 💫

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The 3 Must -Knows for Achieving Systemic Freedom

The 3 Must-Knows for Achieving Systemic Freedom If you want to permanently break cycles and reclaim your power, you need to have these three elements in place. These are what my successful clients embrace: They Accept the "Hidden Loyalty" Diagnosis: They stop saying "I'm lazy" and start asking, "What inherited vow is making me self-sabotage?" (e.g., Is my success threatening my family's survival narrative?). They embrace that their self-sabotage is a deep, unconscious loyalty they need to release. They Prioritize the Root, Not the Branch: They understand that willpower is useless against Systemic Trauma. They are committed to methods that speak the language of the body and the soul, like Family Constellations, to trace the emotional burden back to its origin. They Choose Safety Over Struggle: They understand that their pattern of struggle is actually their nervous system's way of seeking a familiar, safe place. They commit to creating congruency—making their desired success feel safe, deserved, and fully integrated. My work provides the map to achieve these three shifts. It’s deep, it requires courage, and it is the only way to lasting freedom. If you are ready to move from blaming your behavior to mastering your destiny, send me a DM with the word "DETECTIVE" to apply for a complimentary Breakthrough Session. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love ans soul hugs #ColliChristante #RadicalResponsibility #SelfSabotage #HiddenLoyalties #BreakCycles #SystemicTrauma

My Personal

🔓 My Personal 3-Step Process for Ending Professional Self-Sabotage I want to share a pattern I lived in for decades: I was great at building incredible projects, getting featured on podcast,magazines and connecting with elite clients... but every time I reached a certain level of success, I would unconsciously self-sabotage my health or finances. I was always climbing a mountain, but the mountain always felt exhausting. I genuinely believed struggle was the price of success. But once I dedicated myself to tracing this systemic pattern, I realized the struggle wasn’t my destiny—it was a Hidden Loyalty. Here are the three core, non-negotiable steps I had to take to finally break that cycle and permanently end my own professional self-sabotage: Step 1: Locate the Hidden Loyalty (The Unconscious Vow) I had to stop treating the symptoms (like overworking, procrastination, or spending habits) and become a Detective of my own patterns. I discovered I was carrying an inherited vow that said: "If I succeed easily, I abandon my family who struggled." My success was directly connected to their pain. The Shift: I stopped looking at my behavior as a personal flaw and started seeing it as a systemic commitment. This shift takes the shame away and gives you a clear target for healing. Step 2: Trace the Systemic Root (The Foundational Healing) Willpower and affirmations were useless against this deep, inherited blueprint. I realized I needed a method to speak the language of my body, not just my mind. For me, that meant using Family Constellations to actually see the loyalty in action. The Shift: We aren't healing something that happened to us; we are healing something that happened in the family system. Once I saw the root event that caused the original trauma, I was able to gently release my obligation to repeat the pattern. Step 3: Integrate the New Pattern (The Congruent Life) The final step is integrating the nervous system. After disconnecting from the loyalty, my body still expected loss and rejection. I had to consciously, consistently choose success—not as a hustle, but as a safe, deserved outcome. The Shift: This is where we rewire the fear-based fight/flight/freeze response. My body and soul finally became congruent—what I consciously desired (success) now matched what my nervous system subconsciously accepted (safety). If you’ve recognized yourself in this story—if you know you’re constantly holding yourself back out of a deeply rooted, unseen loyalty—then you are ready to finally end that cycle. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Releasing Inherited Pain - How Family Constellations Free the Soul

Welcome back to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations ✨, the supportive space where we gently explore the wounds that hold the key to our greatest potential 🔑. I'm your host, Colli Christante, Doctor in Integrated Systemic Trauma, and a Detective of Hidden Wounds. Today, we are diving into a topic that is profoundly moving and necessary for true freedom: Releasing Inherited Pain: How Family Constellations Free the Soul. Have you ever felt like you’re carrying a weight that doesn't belong to you? A pattern of self-sabotage, struggle, or fear that seems to have no logical origin in your own life? That's the signature of inherited pain ⛓️—the unconscious contracts and loyalties we carry for our family lineage. In this supportive episode, we’re going to tenderly explore the systemic burdens—the Hidden Loyalties—that unconsciously govern your decisions, your finances, and your happiness. We’ll gently shine a light on 💡 how this unseen inheritance impacts your nervous system and keeps you stuck in cycles that aren't even yours. Join me as we unravel the mysteries of the mind, body, and spirit, offering fresh perspectives on the art of transformation through Family Constellations. It’s time to stop unconsciously serving the past. This is your opportunity to mend those broken connections, break free from inherited struggle, and allow your soul to finally be free. 🕊️ Let’s begin.

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You'll Never End Self-Sabotage Until You Have These 3 Things In Place

If you’re stuck in a cycle of frustration—making progress only to pull yourself back—the problem isn't discipline. It's an unresolved loyalty buried deep in your system. To finally break free and step into your fullest potential, you need to deliberately establish these three core elements: 1. The Willingness to Be the "Black Sheep" (The Courage to Disconnect) Self-sabotage is rarely about you. It’s often a Hidden Loyalty—a subconscious promise to stay small, broke, or sick to belong to your original family system. You must be willing to emotionally risk rejection, exclusion, or separation from the 'collective' (the family or culture that birthed your pain). The Problem: Your nervous system equates success with abandonment. The Solution: You must consciously choose your highest destiny over the safety of the herd. 2. The Map to the Root Cause (Systemic Clarity) You can't solve an ancient, inherited pattern with modern motivation techniques. Trying to 'think positively' or use willpower on a systemic issue is exhausting. You need a map to trace the trauma back to its origin. The Problem: You’re treating the symptom (the sabotage) instead of the inherited blueprint (the Systemic Trauma). The Solution: You need a methodology like Family Constellations to detect the exact moment and source of the wound so you can heal it at the root, not the branch. 3. The Language of the Subconscious (New Programming) The self-sabotage pattern is a highly successful program running in the background. To override it, you must communicate with your body and mind in a language it understands—the language of felt experience, emotion, and congruent action. The Problem: You are consciously asking for success while your nervous system is programmed for flight, fight, or freeze. The Solution: You must engage in deep work that integrates the unintegrated emotional responses and rewires your self-talk into a vibration of worthiness and acceptance. Invitation: If you are ready to be the Detective of Your Own Patterns and shift from frustration to lasting freedom, then you are ready for my systemic approach. Send me a DM with the word "DETECTIVE" to apply for a complimentary Breakthrough Session. #ColliChristante #SelfSabotage #HiddenLoyalties #FamilyConstellations #BreakCycles #SystemicTrauma #ReclaimYourPower

The Power of Your Next Step

✨ The Power of Your Next Step ✨ Life never stands still — - it keeps moving, inviting you to evolve, release, and begin again. 🌿 You can either stay anchored in what has already happened… or choose to rise 🌅 to move forward 💫 to meet the next version of yourself that’s waiting. We all stumble. We all fall. But every mistake, every heartbreak, every pause — it’s all part of your becoming. 🌸 The past can’t be rewritten, but its meaning can be transformed. The lesson is the gift. 💛 The moment you choose to respond with awareness instead of self-judgment — everything begins to shift. Your response — not the old story your mind keeps replaying — is what will shape your future. So take a deep breath. Feel your feet on the ground. From this moment on, give yourself permission to move in a better direction — one aligned with truth, peace, and possibility. 🌙 And so ... Who doesn't want to transform what once held you back into the very energy that propels you forward. If your heart feels the pull to step into what’s next… I’m here to walk beside you. 🤍 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #Transformation #HealingJourney #InnerWork #SelfDiscovery #ColliChristante #SoulAlignment #SystemicHealing #MoveForward

Inner Transformation in Bloom

🌿 October 6, 2025 — Inner Transformation in Bloom 🌿 The beautiful changes unfolding around you aren’t random — they’re reflections of your inner transformation. 💫 Every moment you’ve faced with courage… every time you’ve chosen to trust instead of fear… has shifted something deep within you. You’re no longer reacting from old patterns — you’re responding from power, grace, and grounded intuition. 🌷 This is what happens when you do the inner work. When you honor your intuition — your quiet, steady guide — life begins to mirror back the truth of who you are becoming. You start to attract new experiences, new people, and new opportunities that match your frequency of clarity, joy, and purpose. 💖 Real change doesn’t begin when the outside world looks different — it begins when you do. This is the essence of the work I do — guiding others to move from fear to freedom, from self-sabotage to self-alignment, and from confusion to inner clarity. 🌟 Because when you transform the limited version of yourself, life expands in the most extraordinary ways. 🌈 Believe Breathe Transfrom Collitalks Love and soul hugs

“From the WHL to the NHL… and now training champions. 🎧🔥 Meet Tim Preston.”

🎙️ Welcome to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations — the space where we explore stories of resilience, growth, and the power of transformation 🌱✨ Today, I have the absolute joy of sitting down with someone I first taught mind-body communication to when he was just in grade six 🙌. Now, he’s gone on to do incredible things. Tim Preston’s journey has taken him from playing in the WHL with the Seattle Thunderbirds 🏒 and Saskatoon Blades, to being drafted into the NHL 🏆, and playing within the Pittsburgh Penguins organization. But what’s most inspiring is how he’s turned his passion for hockey into empowering others — training players who’ve gone on to win Olympic gold 🥇, the Stanley Cup 🏒, and some of hockey’s most prestigious awards. In this conversation, we go beyond the game itself to explore the mindset, resilience, and inner drive it takes not only to perform at the highest levels but to inspire others to do the same 💪💫 So let’s dive in… 🎧 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Power of Loving Yourself First

💖 The Power of Loving Yourself First 💖 Love yourself so deeply that you don’t need anyone else to complete you. 🌹 ✨ You are a beautiful soul. ✨ You carry tenderness and compassion within you. ✨ You move through life with sincerity and heart. And the truth is ~ you will always have you. When you begin to give yourself the love, respect, and kindness you’ve been waiting to receive from others, everything changes. You stop chasing approval. You stop shrinking for acceptance. You stop letting people who can’t see your worth hold any power over you. Instead… you attract those who recognize your light. 🌟 People who meet you with respect, genuine admiration, and love that feels safe and true. 💎 Moving beyond the old wounds and self-sabotage keeps you seeking validation outside yourself, and so why not come home to the deep, unshakable love that begins within. Because when you love yourself first, you don’t settle for less than you deserve — and your life transforms in ways you never thought possible. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love 💖 and soul hugs 🤗, Colli

The Common Band-Aid That Keeps You Stuck

💔 The Common Band-Aid That Keeps You Stuck 💔 So many women I meet are trying to “fix” themselves with quick solutions: ✨ Reading more self-help books 📚 ✨ Saying positive affirmations in the mirror 🙌 ✨ Distracting themselves with busyness 🏃‍♀️ These things feel like they’re working in the moment, because they give a temporary sense of control or relief. That’s why so many people keep reaching for them. But here’s the truth… ⚡️ They don’t last, because they never address the root cause. The real reason you keep looping back into the same patterns is self-sabotage born out of hidden wounds—feelings of unworthiness, shame, or fear that quietly run the show from underneath. 👉 This is why you can set goals, work hard, and even see small wins… yet somehow slip back into old behaviors. It’s not because you’re lazy or weak. It’s because your inner saboteur is fighting for “safety,” not success. I know this one deeply. I used to believe if I just tried harder, pushed myself more, or added another practice, things would finally change. But it wasn’t until I learned to uncover and heal the wound beneath the sabotage that everything shifted. 🌹 💎 The truth? Your gift is inside your wound. When you face the patterns that have been secretly holding you back, you finally unlock the freedom, love, and success you’ve been craving. ✨ Stop treating the symptoms. Start transforming the root. ✨ This is the work I do with my clients: helping you see the hidden patterns, release the sabotage, and step fully into the version of you that was always meant to shine. 🌟 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love 💖 and soul hugs 🤗, Colli

Inherited Patterns: How Family Systmes Shape Our Life

"Welcome to Collitalks: Transformative Conversations ✨ — I’m your creator, producer, and host, [Your Name]. Today, we’re opening a sacred conversation 🕊️ about inherited patterns — the unseen threads 🧵 woven through our family systems that shape how we move through the world 🌍. These patterns carry memory, emotion, and energy 🔮 — passed down through generations, often unconsciously. But when we bring them to light ☀️, we begin the work of healing 💗. In this episode, we’ll explore how ancestral imprints influence our path, and how awareness becomes the first step toward freedom, forgiveness, and transformation 🌱. Let’s journey inward — together.” 🧘♀️🌌 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

I Believe in You

Once you release the need to control every outcome, something powerful happens — you begin to flow with life. And in that flow? 🌊 You unlock a level of abundance that no amount of planning could’ve created. Let go of the pressure to analyze every twist and turn. It was never yours to carry in the first place. Support often shows up in the most unexpected ways. And the opportunities that look “ordinary”? They might just be the ones that change everything. People believe what they want to believe. That alone explains so much about what they do or don’t have. Does that make your entire flippin’ day or what?! 😄 ✨ I believe in you. Always. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Ever Have the Urge to Control an Outcome?

Use this reframe the next time you feel the urge to control an outcome. Instead of tightening your grip, try this: “I can care deeply… and still let go.” There is freedom in allowing life to flow — to savor what’s good without needing to hold on so tightly. Detachment isn’t disconnection — it’s choosing presence over control. It’s being here, fully, without fear of what's next. Try this the next time you're clinging to certainty. You might find that peace lives in the release. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Truth I No Longer Dilute

🔥 The Truth I No Longer Dilute 🔥 For too long, I softened parts of myself to be more “marketable.” I hid the depth of what I see, sense, and know. But here’s the truth… ✨ Real transformation isn’t pretty. ✨ Healing isn’t a quick fix. ✨ You can’t bypass the hidden loyalties, the self-sabotage, or the ancestral pain you carry. That’s the truth my industry often avoids. I am here to serve those who are tired of surface solutions. The women (and men) who have silenced their voice just to belong. Those carrying burdens that aren’t theirs. Those who know they are meant for more — and are ready to reclaim their freedom, their truth, and their life’s energy. The circle, the tree, the sacred feminine — these are my symbols. Courage, freedom, compassion, and integrity are my values. And my gift? 🌙 To reveal what has been unseen, to name what has been unspoken, and to walk beside you as you reclaim what was lost. Because when you finally feel safe within yourself… no outside force can ever take away your peace again. This is my truth. This is my work. And I will no longer dilute it. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

From Care Giver to Catalyst - Turning Life Loss into Business Breakthroughs

Hello everyone, and welcome back to Transformative Conversations. I’m your host, Colli Christante — creator, director, and guide for this space where we uncover hidden patterns, explore systemic trauma, and shine light on the paths that lead us back to our true selves. Today, I’m honored to be joined by Lorna Scott. Lorna is a powerful guide for women entrepreneurs, helping them turn life transitions into business breakthroughs through her Identity to Impact System™. Known for her calm clarity and fierce compassion, she walks beside women who feel buried in overwhelm and self-doubt, showing them how to reclaim their focus, confidence, and create a business that truly reflects who they are now. With decades of experience across human services, online marketing, caregiving advocacy, and transformational development — plus her certification in the Canfield Methodology, where she’s even assisted Jack Canfield in training new trainers — Lorna brings a rare mix of strategy, lived wisdom, and heart. And today, she’s here to share not only her wisdom, but also her brand-new program designed to help women step into their true identity, reclaim their confidence, and expand their impact. This conversation is all about identity, resilience, and the courage to align your business with your authentic self. I cannot wait for you to experience what Lorna has to share. So let’s dive in. Here’s my conversation with Lorna Scott.

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Inside Out

✨ You may think that healing or transformation comes from what happens outside of you—whether that’s approval, love, money, or validation. But what if I told you that paradigm is on its way out? The shift I see happening is this: people are no longer willing to live in a world where their peace depends on everything around them being perfect. The new way is about becoming a safe space for yourself. Because no matter what’s happening out there—who leaves, who stays, what breaks, or what builds—when you feel safe inside your own skin, nothing can rob you of your peace. 🌱 Each day gives you another chance to begin again. 🌬️ To breathe, to feel, to simply be. This is where true contentment is born—not from the external, but from within. And once you anchor into that, you’ll discover that no one and nothing can take it away. This is the work I do: guiding you back home to yourself. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨 Here’s the elephant in the room: 👉 No amount of positive affirmations, mindset hacks, or quick-fix self-help tools will create lasting change if you haven’t uncovered the hidden loyalties and systemic entanglements that are running your life beneath the surface. This is the harsh truth my industry often avoids — because it’s easier to sell a shiny “3 steps to happiness” promise than to guide someone into the deeper work of facing what is unseen. But until you shine a light on those hidden loyalties - - the unconscious bonds that drive self-sabotage, burnout, and cycles of pain — you will keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how many workshops or books you consume. 🌿 Transformation requires courage. 🌿 It requires looking at the roots, not just trimming the weeds. 🌿 And it requires wisdom, not just knowledge. This is the work I do. This is why I became a Doctor in Integrated Systemic Trauma. Because when you’re ready to stop circling the same mountain, you need someone who can walk with you into the depth — and guide you back out with freedom in your soul. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Like a Sunrise

Heartfelt Gratitude

Today I am honored to share that I have officially received my Doctorate in Systemic Trauma through the University of Systemic Work. 🌿 This certificate represents not just an academic achievement, but five years of deep study, practice, and embodiment. I am filled with gratitude for: 💜 Rector Graciela Laura 💜 Dr. Anngwyn St. Just 💜 Nora, for her beautiful translations 💜 Lucia, for her tireless tech support 💜 All the visiting professors 💜 And my colleagues, who walked this path beside me This journey was never about collecting knowledge — it was about gaining wisdom. Living the work. Facing my own patterns. Healing the unseen. And now, carrying this forward in service to others. A certificate may be a piece of paper — but what it represents is a lifelong commitment to honoring the soul, uncovering what is hidden, and guiding others back to their truth. Thank you to everyone who has been part of this chapter. The journey continues… 🌟 #DoctorateInSystemicTrauma #EmbodiedWisdom #SystemicWork #HealingJourney #LifeWork #SacredPath

Knowledge vs Wisdom

✨ New Podcast Episode ✨ Today’s episode of Transformative Conversations is extra special… 💜 Not only do I dive into the difference between wisdom and knowledge — and how social media can distract us from doing the deeper work that leads to true transformation — but I also share a very personal milestone. After 5 years of dedicated study, I have officially become a Doctor in Systemic Trauma with the University of Systemic Work. 🌿 This is more than a title. It’s about embodying the wisdom that only comes from walking through the fire of life, doing the inner work, and carrying that forward to guide others. Tune in as I share why knowledge fills the mind, but wisdom transforms the soul. 🎧

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Embracing Life as it Unfolds

✨ September 13, 2025 ✨ There have been so many times in my life when things did not turn out the way I expected. Plans collapsed, relationships shifted, and the ground beneath me felt uncertain. In the past, I would fight against reality — trying to control it, fix it, or resist it. But what I discovered is this: the more I return to my heart’s calm center, the more peace I find, no matter what is happening around me. 🌿 It doesn’t mean the chaos disappears. But it does mean I no longer let unhealthy thoughts distort my perception of who I am or where my life is heading. Life is always unfolding — sometimes beautifully, sometimes painfully — but always with something to teach us. When I allow myself to embrace it unconditionally, I can see the glimmers of joy and hope that are always present, even in the darkest seasons. ✨ If you’re in a place where things feel heavy or uncertain, know this: peace isn’t found in perfection — it’s found in your heart. Come back to it, again and again. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Truth About Growth Most People Miss

✨ The Truth About Growth Most People Miss ✨ So many people try to “fix” themselves by adding more— 📚 more books 🎧 more podcasts 📝 more self-improvement tips But here’s the mistake: They believe that doing more will finally make the stuckness go away. In reality, piling on more strategies often buries the real issue even deeper. The truth? You don’t need more information - - you need transformation. You need to uncover and release the hidden loyalties, ancestral patterns, and old narratives that silently hold you back. That’s why I love what my client shared recently: “Could not have acheived this career milestone without you. If you are reading this and are serious about becoming better personally and professionally, then Colli can be your life coach to guide you and also help you to get rid of the issues that are holding you back! Contact her now"! Robert Ames CCM, PGA 🌿 This is the work I do. It’s not about quick fixes or band-aids. It’s about creating lasting freedom in your soul and your life. ✨ If you’re tired of trying to “add more” to fix yourself, maybe it’s time to release what was never yours to carry in the first place. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Challenges are Part of the Soul's Path

✨ Challenges are part of the soul’s path ✨ So often, we search for the perfect solution - - the one answer that will finally make everything fall into place. But what if the key isn’t in the solution… but in the perspective? 🌿 Fear narrows our vision, keeping us trapped in old stories. 🌿 A subtle shift in awareness begins to soften the edges. 🌿 And suddenly… what once felt heavy reveals hidden gifts, quiet opportunities, and lessons laced with wisdom. The truth is, you don’t have to know the way forward. You only need to hold the dream close to your heart and take a step. That’s when life moves toward you — wands waving, mysteries unfolding, and new beginnings quietly forming. What may feel like an ending could simply be the doorway into a luminous new chapter. 🌸 💫 For those who feel called — this is the sacred work I hold space for: guiding you to see the unseen, to uncover the wisdom in your challenges, and to step into the magic that has always been waiting for you. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Do You Feel Like Life is Happening to You Instead of For You?

✨ Use this reframe the next time you feel like life is happening to you instead of for you. So often we slip into the story: “This is unfair… why me?” But here’s the shift → What if life isn’t punishing you, but positioning you? Every challenge carries a hidden doorway. Every setback is coded with information about where you’re still entangled, repeating, or holding fear. When you pause, breathe, and ask “What is life showing me here?” you step into your power. Because you can’t transform what you keep resisting — but you can transform what you’re willing to face. 💫 Try this today: the next time you feel like a victim of circumstance, ask yourself: 👉 “If this is guiding me toward something, what might it be?” That one question shifts you from powerless to powerful — from trapped to free. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs