Still Stuck in the Same pattern - - No Matter How much Work You've Done? Here's Why

💥 Still stuck in the same pattern — no matter how much work you’ve done? Here’s why. You’ve done therapy. You’ve journaled, meditated, vision-boarded, hired the coach, burned the sage, read the books. You’re self-aware. You can name the pattern. But nothing really changes. You feel like you’re dancing around the root, just managing your pain instead of clearing it. And you wonder, what am I missing? 👉🏽 Here’s the game-changing perspective that blows my clients’ minds every time: You’re not self-sabotaging. You’re staying loyal. To your mother’s silence. To your father’s anger. To the ancestor who never got justice. To the system that said: stay small and you’ll be safe. 🧬 What most people miss — and what I specialize in — is this: Most patterns don’t begin with you. They begin in the system. In the unspoken grief, shame, betrayal, or fear that’s been passed down through generations — and now lives in your nervous system like it belongs there. 💥 Here’s the shift: You don’t need more mindset work. You need to see the contract you didn’t know you signed. And when I guide clients through my work — whether it's Family Constellations or my Self-Sabotage Freedom Process — they often realize, "This pattern isn’t mine. I’m carrying it for someone else." And just like that… The grip loosens. The sabotage ends. The energy returns. The freedom begins. 🌀 If you want to break free, you can’t just upgrade your thoughts — You have to liberate the part of you that’s still protecting someone else’s pain. That’s where I come in. 📩 DM me “LOYALTY” if you’re ready to stop calling it sabotage — and finally set yourself free. Because you were never broken. You were just trying to belong. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs