Here's the Biggest Struggle I See Among Powerful, Self - Aware Women

💥 Here’s the biggest struggle I see among powerful, self-aware women… They’ve done all the right things — therapy, breathwork, journaling, boundaries, somatics, forgiveness letters, vision boards… ✨ And yet, they still find themselves looping old patterns. Shutting down in love. Sabotaging just as something good begins. Overgiving. Undercharging. Disappearing. Feeling like something unseen is pulling their strings from beneath the surface. And the worst part? They blame themselves for it. For not being further along. For still “being stuck.” For not trying hard enough. 🌪️ But here’s what’s really going on: They’re not stuck. They’re entangled. With someone in their family system. With an unspoken contract. With an inherited survival identity — the fixer, the invisible one, the good daughter, the strong one. They’re still carrying a burden that was never theirs to begin with. And until that’s seen, nothing truly changes — because the sabotage isn’t random, it’s loyalty. 🚫 What they think they need to do: Push harder Try a new method Fix their mindset Cut cords "Be more consistent" But none of that works when you’re trying to evolve while still protecting the past. 🌀 What they actually need: To uncover and release the unconscious contracts they’ve been keeping with their family system. To stop trying to fix themselves and finally see the root dynamic that’s been holding their power hostage. To do the work that’s less about “doing” — and more about releasing, including, witnessing, and reclaiming. That’s what I do inside my constellation and liberation work. And that’s what we’ll be doing inside UNBOUND — launching this fall. Because freedom isn’t about forcing forward. It’s about finally letting go — with reverence.