The Real Reason Your Healing Isn't Working (and What to Do Instead)

💔 The Real Reason Your Healing Isn’t Working (and What to Do Instead) If you’ve tried talk therapy, journaling, or cutting cords with toxic people — and you’re still carrying the same weight — you’re not alone. Most women I work with have done all the things: ✅ Read the self-help books ✅ Said the affirmations ✅ Attended the yoga classes ✅ Tried to “just let it go” But deep down, they’re still locked in a silent loyalty to pain — especially pain that was passed down from their mothers. You see, there’s a bandaid that so many spiritual women are taught to use: “Just forgive and move on.” But what happens when your nervous system won’t let you? When your body remembers what your mind tries to forget? When silence feels safer than truth? Here’s the truth: Most women aren’t broken — they’re entangled. They’ve inherited the unspoken trauma, grief, and sacrifice of generations of women who had no choice but to survive by disappearing. They gave up their voice to be loved. They gave up their truth to belong. They gave up their dreams to be a “good” daughter, wife, or mother. ✨ This was true for me. My mother, Francis, gave up her voice, her truth, and even her connection to Source to belong… to be loved by my father. And in doing so, she unknowingly passed that pattern down to me — until I chose to break it. But healing doesn’t come from cutting cords — It comes from seeing, acknowledging, and including all parts of your story, even the ones that feel too messy or “unspiritual.” 🌹 Use this reframe the next time you feel stuck in resentment, guilt, or silence: Instead of asking: ✨ “How do I forgive them?” Ask: 💥 “What am I still carrying that was never mine to hold?” That’s where we begin. I don’t ask my clients to do anything I haven’t done. I walk this path with you — not above you. And as I expand into workshops this season, especially around Mother’s Day, I want to call in the women who are done trying to fix themselves and are ready to finally free themselves — in body, soul, and lineage. 🕊️ If this stirred something in you, you’re not broken. You’re remembering. And I’m here to guide you back to your voice. The one that never left you — just waited for the right moment to rise. 💬 Tell me — what are you still carrying?