What Parts of Yourself Had to Die in Order for You to be Loved?

🔥 What parts of yourself had to die in order for you to be “loved”? Was it your voice? Your truth? Your boundaries? Your joy? Most of us learned early that in order to belong, we had to betray ourselves. And now, as adults, we call that betrayal personality. You think you’re just “low maintenance”… But really, you were taught not to have needs. You think you’re “independent”… But really, you learned no one would come for you. You think you're just "a hard worker"... But really, you've been running from the pain of being unseen. 💥 Here's the kicker: The very identity that helped you survive is now the same one blocking you from thriving. But what if your nervous system could learn something new? What if you could include all the parts of you that were exiled… without burning your life down? What if “healing” wasn’t about cutting cords, but about reconnecting to what’s real? 🖤 I don’t do surface work. I work with the soul of the system — the invisible loyalties, ancestral grief, and patterns of sabotage that have you stuck in loops. So let me ask you again: What part of you are you still sacrificing to stay loved, safe, or chosen? And is it finally time to break the contract? 👇 I’d love to hear your answer.