The Identity You're Clinging to is The Cage You Cannot See

Let’s say you’re the woman who’s done so much inner work. You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled yourself into clarity. You’ve attended the retreats, pulled the cards, and whispered affirmations into the mirror until your voice cracked. But deep down… You still feel like you’re performing a version of yourself that isn’t quite real. You’re still bending, pleasing, fixing, or hiding. You’re still making sure everyone else feels safe and seen — but when it comes to you? You feel invisible. Exhausted. Unfulfilled. You want to speak your truth. You want to feel powerful in your skin. You want to be fully expressed — as the woman you know lives inside you. But every time you try to step into that version of yourself… Guilt creeps in. Fear whispers, “Who do you think you are?” And the old identity — the one built for survival, not truth — pulls you right back. 🕊️ Here’s what I want you to know: This isn’t a mindset issue. This is a soul-level identity bind. And until you consciously divorce the version of yourself that was built to belong, You will keep repeating patterns that no longer serve you. What I do with my clients is help them untangle from the inherited stories, the ancestral expectations, and the emotional contracts they never consciously agreed to. Together, we reveal the hidden loyalties keeping them stuck — and liberate the woman beneath it all. The one who’s not afraid of her voice. The one who doesn’t abandon herself for love. The one who no longer needs to prove her worth — because she embodies it. You’re not broken. You’re just tired of wearing a mask that was never made for you. And I’m here when you’re ready to take it off.