When You STOP Trying to Fix Yourself, You Start to Meet Yourself

Here’s something that sounds counterintuitive — but I’ve seen it crack people wide open in the best way… When you’re stuck in self-sabotage, systemic patterns, or trauma loops, most of the world will tell you: Push harder. Fix it. Do more healing. Say the affirmation. Think positive. Override the fear. But I say the opposite. I say: Pause. Soften. Listen. Not to the story in your head — but to the voice underneath the silence. Because what’s running the show isn’t just you — it’s generations of unspoken grief, hidden loyalties, and inherited patterns 🔁🧬. When you stop trying to fix yourself, you start to meet yourself. And that’s where the real healing happens. Not by doing more… but by including what’s been exiled. By honoring what your system has always been trying to protect 🛡️. ✨ So instead of fighting your resistance… get curious about it. ✨ Instead of overriding the fear… sit beside it like an old ancestor with a story to tell. ✨ Instead of striving to be better… recognize how hard your system has worked to keep you safe. This work isn’t about doing more. It’s about unraveling the why beneath what you’ve been repeating — so you can finally choose a new path 🕊️. So no… I won’t push you to “just get over it.” I’ll walk you back into the room where it first began — and help you retrieve the part of you still waiting to be seen 👁️🤍. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs