The Paradigm Shift

THE PARADIGM SHIFT Mindset is like painting a rusty car. If you’re a high-performer wondering why you’re still exhausted despite "thinking positive," here’s the truth: Mindset is out. Marrow is in. Stop trying to "affirm" your way out of a problem that is living in your bones. THE CASE: WHY "THINKING POSITIVE" FAILS Ever wonder why you can "visualize" money all day, but your body still feels like it’s waiting for a disaster? It’s because you are trying to run a new app on a broken iPhone. In my 35 years of research, I’ve discovered that most successful women are carrying a "Family Debt" they didn't sign up for. You’ve spent your life being the "Pack-Mule"—carrying the stress of your parents, the needs of your kids, and the weight of your career. Your body is "clenched" to protect everyone else. You can’t "think" your way out of that. Your brain is just doing its job: it’s keeping you "tight" and "small" because it thinks that's the only way to keep the family standing. That is the "Black Sheep Tax." THE STORY: REVERSE ENGINEERING THE "CLINCH" Recently, an engineering student watched me work. She didn't see "healing." She saw Logic. She said: "Colli, you aren't just talking. You are taking the machine apart to find the broken gear." She was right. I don't "chat" about your feelings. I look at your System. I find the exact spot in your body where you are still bookkeeping your mother's struggles or your grandmother's fears. I find the "Clinch" and I dismantle it. THE "HUH" MOMENT When the architecture is right, the "hustle" stops. You don't need to "work harder." You need to stop being Useful to everyone else's drama so you can finally be Valuable to your own life. I am the proof that when you stop "clinching," you finally Arrive. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs