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Are YOU being programmed for POVERTY?

 As a Self Sabotage Coach, I can assure you that although health-based self sabotage appears to be the most frequent form of self-sabotage, wealth-based self-sabotage is actually what stands as the #1 form of self-sabotage in most societies.

The movies and TV shows are littered with anti-wealth programming, which of course is manufactured purposely to program us in this very way. Nothing out of Hollywood is an accident, coincidence, misunderstanding, or chance happening. I at one time believed that the movie and TV screens were there to make our lives more exciting and fun but nothing could be further from the truth.

Come up to speed on what's known as "poverty programming", a subconscious mind control spell designed to keep people running east looking for a sunset......in regards to their wealth. Similar anti-health and dis-empowering mind virus implants are inserted into us, by our screens, as well. Our mind identifies and copies patterns in our environment and the movies/TV shows make sure poverty and struggle are associated with being noble, clean, and walking the high moral ground.

Come up to speed on what's known as "poverty programming", a subconscious mind control spell designed to keep people running east looking for a sunset......in regards to their wealth. Similar anti-health and dis-empowering mind virus implants are inserted into us, by our screens, as well. Our mind identifies and copies patterns in our environment and the movies/TV shows make sure poverty and struggle are associated with being noble, clean, and walking the high moral ground.

Do YOU need Others Approval?

 

Did you know Divorce is Being Sold to YOU?

Selling Divorce in the West Self-sabotage is often very simple yet hard to grasp for the average person. The truth is.....we don't control our behavior in the way we think or the way we're taught. If you knew how your behavior was manufactured by the repetitive content in your environment, you would really pay more attention to the repetitive content in your environment.

The people who have a great deal of control over us know that our subconscious mind is literally designed as a repetitive content identifier. Once the repetitive content is identified, our subconscious forces us to act it out, beyond our conscious awareness.

The people who do social engineering control behavior, through repetitive screen content, because they understand how the subconscious mind works......while the average screen watcher has no clue how their subconscious mind works. Whatever our social engineers want us to do, they simply make us see that particular repetitive content on the screen and we act it out. The repetitive content we're exposed to purposely, by social engineers, is always negative.......which in turn makes us easier to rule, manipulate, steal from, lie to, govern, poison and control.

Here's a good video explanation regarding how divorce has been purposely accelerated through screen media, to destabilize our society and culture.

Women are programmed in one way (mostly negative) and men are programmed in other ways ... yet always negative as well. More on this later. All on purpose, all by design, all without our conscious awareness, all well-documented cause and effect. As an experiment stop for a moment and think how many of your friends, family members, or maybe you also are divorced.

If you're curious as to how all this mental manipulation works and how to protect yourself from it DROP me a line personally at innerexpression88@gmail.com for more information."

How to Stop Chasing Ambulances

Have you ever thought about whether you want to actually enjoy living? Something to ponder on a hot holiday (for some) day. If you do want to enjoy I call it live in joy then you have to let go trying to please everyone else. You have to go beyond judgment. You can't go through life worried about what everyone else is going to think.

Believe me, I know this from experience. I was addicted to rescuing people thinking they actually needed me - -haha:) No these people did not need me. I needed them in my life to make my life busy and seem like my busy was being productive. Not! This is how busy operates. Dig a hole for 4 hours, fill it for the next 4 hours and doing this day in and day out wonder why nothing is shifting in your life. Well, if you did a hole for 4 hours then fill it how do you expect to build a new foundation? You cannot. It is impossible. Yes, you will be busy - - keeping the same old pattern going and getting the same old results and you will be exhausted which makes you feel safe because you are in the familiar zone. Subconscious loves the familiar. That is why so many people never accomplish what they set out to do or want to do. It really is work to hack the subconscious and put in new programming BUT so worth it - this I know as my truth.

Please do not misunderstand rescue for compassion. I am very compassionate and assist many people but I no longer rescue because I know that enabling does not help. No, it does not. Never has never will. I have officially hung up my ambulance chasing.

I had to let go of the judgment of others stopping me from creating a life that works for me regardless of if they leave my life. I do not assume that their judgments are true. My recommendation if the is true in our life that you look into your thought patterns, your habits, your actions work on building your self-confidence. If you think badly of yourself, it's easy to believe that everyone else is doing it too but really most people do not even think about us. Most people do not give a rat's ass about us. They are too busy doing things in hope of living in joy.

No, we can't control what people think about us there's no point trying that. Just focus on yourself. If you believe in yourself, these judgments won't have any power over you. KEY POINT: do YOU have to believe in yourself and if not what programming are you replaying over and over. If you want to know how to overcome being an ambulance chaser rescuing everyone when you should be living in joy I have much wisdom in this area - actually my new title I have just been given by my higher power is just that.

~Collitalks

Lying and Self Sabotage - Why people Lie

Lying And Self Sabotage - Why People Lie

This question is from the private forum for self-sabotage coaches around the world. A question was asked........" how would you coach a liar, someone where lying is part of who they are and what they do? People who lie about small things, big things, and all things?"

The answer provided was this......."Usually, liars are produced by perfectionist parents, who attack the child if there's a mistake outside the preferred behavior. This is where most adult liars come from, a fear of judgment and a fear of never being outside the critical eye of the parent/authority figure. If you fear being judged if wrong, you lie.

This cycle produces a reaction in the psyche that will force the child to lie, in order to avoid punishment or judgment, which threatens their safety. Liars have never made their proper rite of passage from child to adult whatsoever and many liars do indeed lie about things that don't have to be lied about, simply because this pathway is hyper facilitated. I know many people like this and it will cause great resistance energy in any tribe of fully matured adults. Adult liars have child psyches and therefore poor leadership skills. Low confidence in their abilities always follows in the other members of the tribe. Strong men and women never lie.

Growth is about the experience, experience is about making mistakes and dealing with those mistakes, not avoiding their sting. Liars buffer themselves from that sting, which promotes growth through pain, and therefore liars are often trapped in a severe form of arrested development. The growth cycle of a human is simple.

Experience is encountered as we age ........... mistakes are made .......... pain is produced from the mistakes ..... and positive change/maturation occurs if the pain is dealt with correctly. Liars never get past the second part of that equation because they refuse to admit to any wrongdoing, mistakes, or problems that they need to remedy. Lies protect us from painful introspection and therefore lies protect us from growth and the proper maturation cycles that end with us entering our true adult role in the tribe. Without tribal leaders, the tribe falls apart.

Adult liars (regardless of what they lie about) are clear threats to the perpetuation of any society, culture, tribe, etc. In ancient societies, adults who refused to take their proper rite of passage from child to adult were often murdered as they slept because it was just too risky to let them live out child-based behaviors and thought patterns as adults. If we look at our leaders today in most facets of our society, the threat nonmature adults pose to the entire tribe should be extremely obvious.

Currently, in most countries, we are being led by children trapped in adult bodies. Our societies are collapsing because of it, as was always known by all ancient cultures."

Want to Stop People Pleasing?

Isn't it time you stopped obsessing about what others think of you? Do you realize how much time you have wasted - - way too much time worrying whether other people are judging you.

That is a pattern and it is time to shift that pattern. When you give more importance to others' opinions of you than what you believe about yourself, you become a people pleaser. Do you know that you can actually be addicted to people-pleasing because the reality of people-pleasing is you are not doing it for others but for what it gives you?

As a result, you always put others first, ignore your own needs and end up feeling inauthentic. When we give over our power to others, we lose out on who we really are and that being a secondary gain is what this post is all about. Want to know how not to be a people pleaser ... ask an x people pleaser email me at innerexpression88@gmail.com

~Collitalks