What if Your Struggles Aren't Just Yours?

✨ What If Your Struggles Aren’t Just Yours? ✨ Recurring Themes That Keep Showing Up in My Practice (And What They're Rooted In) Every week, I sit with clients who come to me with unique stories—but the themes they bring are strikingly similar. Whether they’re entrepreneurs, healers, mothers, artists, or simply humans doing their best...the deeper I listen, the clearer the patterns become. Here are some of the most common struggles I’m seeing right now: 🔹 “Why do I keep sabotaging things just as they’re going well?” 🔹 “I can’t seem to move forward, even though I’ve done so much work already.” 🔹 “I’m stuck in this loop with my partner/parent/child and don’t know how to get out.” 🔹 “No matter what I do, I can’t shake this heaviness/anxiety/fear.” 🔹 “It’s like I’m living someone else’s life and I don’t know who I really am.” At first glance, these seem like mindset issues. But they’re not. They’re not just about willpower or “thinking positive.” They’re symptoms of deeper, inherited stories. They’re the echoes of unresolved trauma, passed down and silently running the show. They’re the whispers of loyalty to your family system—often unconscious and always powerful. 🔍 What these all have in common? They’re rooted in systemic trauma and unconscious loyalty— - often to pain, struggle, or patterns that were never yours to begin with. And here’s where my unique gift comes in. I’m a detective of the soul. 🕵️‍♀️ I uncover the hidden patterns, inherited burdens, and tangled loyalties that most people—and even most professionals—can’t see. This is deep work. And there are few who can navigate it the way I do. Through the lens of Family Constellations, we see that you may be: Holding the grief of a grandmother you never met. Repeating a pattern of abandonment or loss because belonging to your family system required it. Sabotaging success because someone in your lineage suffered when they succeeded. Staying small because guilt, fear, or trauma is tangled in your expansion. 💫 This is my passion: To reconnect you with your soul. To help you untangle from what’s not yours. To heal broken connections—between you and your inner truth, your lineage, and the life that’s waiting for you. You don’t need to carry what isn’t yours. You can honor the past without repeating it. You can untangle from ancestral pain and finally live as yourself. If these themes resonate with you, it’s not a coincidence. It’s a sign your soul is ready to stop surviving and start remembering who you really are. And I’m here for that part of your journey. Let’s do the deeper work. ✨ Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #FamilyConstellations #SoulHealing #SelfSabotage #SystemicTrauma #AncestralHealing #HealingJourney #UnconsciousLoyalty #BreakTheCycle #TransformThePattern #ReconnectToYourself