Here's Exactly What I Would Do if I Wanted to Stop Sabotaging the Very Thing I Say I Want

💫 Here’s exactly what I would do if I wanted to stop sabotaging the very thing I say I want… I wouldn’t try to fix it. I wouldn’t start with a vision board, a new morning routine, or another mindset podcast. I wouldn’t “push through” or “try harder.” Here’s exactly what I’d do instead: I’d get radically honest about the pattern — - not just what’s happening, but when it happens, and what it protects me from. (Even sabotage serves someone in your lineage.) I’d map the system - - who am I still trying to stay loyal to? Who in my family lost something I’m afraid to have? I’d feel into the broken connection. Because the part of me that’s blocking success is often still entangled in someone else’s pain, grief, or silence. I’d use constellation work to give that story a place to land — - and to begin restoring right relationship with myself and my system. I’d stop identifying with the sabotage. It’s not who I am — it’s what I learned to do to stay safe and loved. 💥 This is what most people miss. They try to change the outcome without shifting the origin. They try to be seen… without first belonging to themselves. ✨ But when the root is witnessed, ✨ when the nervous system is no longer in defense, ✨ when the broken bond is healed… what once felt impossible becomes inevitable. That’s where we begin. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs #SelfSabotageHealing #SystemicTrauma #FamilyConstellations #YourGiftIsInsideYourWound #TransformTheLimitedVersionOfYou #EmotionalAlchemy #RootCauseWork #TraumaInformedCoaching