Ever Have the Urge to Control an Outcome?

Use this reframe the next time you feel the urge to control an outcome. Instead of tightening your grip, try this: “I can care deeply… and still let go.” There is freedom in allowing life to flow — to savor what’s good without needing to hold on so tightly. Detachment isn’t disconnection — it’s choosing presence over control. It’s being here, fully, without fear of what's next. Try this the next time you're clinging to certainty. You might find that peace lives in the release. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

The Truth I No Longer Dilute

🔥 The Truth I No Longer Dilute 🔥 For too long, I softened parts of myself to be more “marketable.” I hid the depth of what I see, sense, and know. But here’s the truth… ✨ Real transformation isn’t pretty. ✨ Healing isn’t a quick fix. ✨ You can’t bypass the hidden loyalties, the self-sabotage, or the ancestral pain you carry. That’s the truth my industry often avoids. I am here to serve those who are tired of surface solutions. The women (and men) who have silenced their voice just to belong. Those carrying burdens that aren’t theirs. Those who know they are meant for more — and are ready to reclaim their freedom, their truth, and their life’s energy. The circle, the tree, the sacred feminine — these are my symbols. Courage, freedom, compassion, and integrity are my values. And my gift? 🌙 To reveal what has been unseen, to name what has been unspoken, and to walk beside you as you reclaim what was lost. Because when you finally feel safe within yourself… no outside force can ever take away your peace again. This is my truth. This is my work. And I will no longer dilute it. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

From Care Giver to Catalyst - Turning Life Loss into Business Breakthroughs

Hello everyone, and welcome back to Transformative Conversations. I’m your host, Colli Christante — creator, director, and guide for this space where we uncover hidden patterns, explore systemic trauma, and shine light on the paths that lead us back to our true selves. Today, I’m honored to be joined by Lorna Scott. Lorna is a powerful guide for women entrepreneurs, helping them turn life transitions into business breakthroughs through her Identity to Impact System™. Known for her calm clarity and fierce compassion, she walks beside women who feel buried in overwhelm and self-doubt, showing them how to reclaim their focus, confidence, and create a business that truly reflects who they are now. With decades of experience across human services, online marketing, caregiving advocacy, and transformational development — plus her certification in the Canfield Methodology, where she’s even assisted Jack Canfield in training new trainers — Lorna brings a rare mix of strategy, lived wisdom, and heart. And today, she’s here to share not only her wisdom, but also her brand-new program designed to help women step into their true identity, reclaim their confidence, and expand their impact. This conversation is all about identity, resilience, and the courage to align your business with your authentic self. I cannot wait for you to experience what Lorna has to share. So let’s dive in. Here’s my conversation with Lorna Scott.

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Inside Out

✨ You may think that healing or transformation comes from what happens outside of you—whether that’s approval, love, money, or validation. But what if I told you that paradigm is on its way out? The shift I see happening is this: people are no longer willing to live in a world where their peace depends on everything around them being perfect. The new way is about becoming a safe space for yourself. Because no matter what’s happening out there—who leaves, who stays, what breaks, or what builds—when you feel safe inside your own skin, nothing can rob you of your peace. 🌱 Each day gives you another chance to begin again. 🌬️ To breathe, to feel, to simply be. This is where true contentment is born—not from the external, but from within. And once you anchor into that, you’ll discover that no one and nothing can take it away. This is the work I do: guiding you back home to yourself. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨

🚨 You’re not broken. You’re entangled — and no quick fix will untangle what runs generations deep. 🚨 Here’s the elephant in the room: 👉 No amount of positive affirmations, mindset hacks, or quick-fix self-help tools will create lasting change if you haven’t uncovered the hidden loyalties and systemic entanglements that are running your life beneath the surface. This is the harsh truth my industry often avoids — because it’s easier to sell a shiny “3 steps to happiness” promise than to guide someone into the deeper work of facing what is unseen. But until you shine a light on those hidden loyalties - - the unconscious bonds that drive self-sabotage, burnout, and cycles of pain — you will keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how many workshops or books you consume. 🌿 Transformation requires courage. 🌿 It requires looking at the roots, not just trimming the weeds. 🌿 And it requires wisdom, not just knowledge. This is the work I do. This is why I became a Doctor in Integrated Systemic Trauma. Because when you’re ready to stop circling the same mountain, you need someone who can walk with you into the depth — and guide you back out with freedom in your soul. 🦋 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Like a Sunrise

Heartfelt Gratitude

Today I am honored to share that I have officially received my Doctorate in Systemic Trauma through the University of Systemic Work. 🌿 This certificate represents not just an academic achievement, but five years of deep study, practice, and embodiment. I am filled with gratitude for: 💜 Rector Graciela Laura 💜 Dr. Anngwyn St. Just 💜 Nora, for her beautiful translations 💜 Lucia, for her tireless tech support 💜 All the visiting professors 💜 And my colleagues, who walked this path beside me This journey was never about collecting knowledge — it was about gaining wisdom. Living the work. Facing my own patterns. Healing the unseen. And now, carrying this forward in service to others. A certificate may be a piece of paper — but what it represents is a lifelong commitment to honoring the soul, uncovering what is hidden, and guiding others back to their truth. Thank you to everyone who has been part of this chapter. The journey continues… 🌟 #DoctorateInSystemicTrauma #EmbodiedWisdom #SystemicWork #HealingJourney #LifeWork #SacredPath