Colli K Christante
My blog celebrates the life journeys of us as women and is intended to inspire female readers to take a leap of faith---to courageously and deliberately seek personal transformation as we move through the various stages of our lives. As Women we constantly desire to know how to develop deep, juicy spiritual, emotional and physical lives throughout our whole lifespan.
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
"I Keep Holdin on to Yesterday"
"I keep holdin' on to yesterday..." 🎶
For years, those lyrics weren’t just a song to me; they were a life sentence. From 1971 to 2023, my "Yesterday" was a massive, unpaid endowment to a family system that needed me to stay in the "Rescue Mission" frequency. I held the history, I held the grief, and I held the glue that kept the foundations from cracking.
I was so busy holding on to their yesterday that I almost forgot to build my own today.
But synchronicity has a way of shouting when the Resident finally decides to listen. 🕯️
Just as I finished my systemic audit—just as I applied sacred oils to heal decades of "Hidden Loyalty" - - a voice reached out to me. It was a message that resonated with the exact frequency of that song—a voice that sounded like a long-lost "thank you" for the years of labor I’ve just completed.
Whether it was a cosmic mirror or a literal one, the signal was undeniable. It was the universe’s way of saying: “You can stop holding on now. The account is settled.”
Now, I’m realizing that "Yesterday" is a place to visit for wisdom, not a place to live for survival. I’m no longer the woman who finances other people’s emotional stability with her own exhaustion. I’m the woman who is gliding on the ice with her grandson, feeling the fresh air on her cheeks and the "Pro" in her ankles. ⛸️✨
The contract has expired. The "something not right" feeling has been identified as a mismatch of frequencies. And the "Holdin' on to Yesterday" era is officially over.
I am moving into the Architecture of After. I have found me again. And for the first time in half a century, my hands are empty—which means they are finally free to create my masterpiece.
Believe Breathe Transform
Collitalks
Love and soul hugs
#SovereigntyNow #WombLineMuse #TheResident #HoldinOnToYesterday #SystemicAudit #FindingMeAgain #ArchitectureOfAfter #Synchronicity #TheSovereignSignal
Sunday, December 28, 2025
The Subversive New Year: Why Your Sovereignty Terrifies the Status Quo
The status quo relies on your "Hidden Loyalty" to the struggle. 🕯️
As a Sovereign Architect and Womb-Line Muse, I’ve spent my career decoding how abusive dynamics siphon life force from brilliant women. We are taught that our value is in the rescue, the glue, and the grind.
But what happens when you use Language-Based Healing to dissolve the shame contract? What happens when you anchor your peace so deeply that you become "Unassailable"?
The status quo panics. Because a woman who has healed the Mother-Womb fracture is no longer a source of free energy for a dying system.
Join me on Collitalks as we move beyond mindset and into Systemic Trauma Resolution. Learn how to anchor your peace and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright.
#SovereignArchitect #MasterNLP #SystemicHealing #DrColliChristante #TheUnassailableTruth#Tune into Collitalks and learn how to finally anchor your peace, dissolve the shame contract, and claim the sovereignty that is your birthright.
Break Cycles. Reclaim Your Power. Transform Your Life.
Action & Support Links
Your Coach/Host: Dr. Colli Christante, The Womb Line Muse
Action & Support Links
SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante
LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE:
Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/
Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5
Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7
GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com
Believe Breathe Transform
Collitalks
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
My "Grandfather’s Peace"
The "Grandfather’s Peace"
"I’ve been thinking a lot about my grandfather lately - -a kind, hardworking man who was silenced by a system that didn't understand his language.
Tonight, I am using my voice to honor his silence. I am sitting in the warmth of a home he helped make possible, surrounded by a lineage that is finally learning the language of peace.
Sometimes, the greatest gift we can give our ancestors is our own regulation. Tonight, the war is over. We are home. 🕯️🇵🇱 #AncestralPeace #LinguisticRestoration #Legacy"
Saturday, December 20, 2025
Billboard of Truth
I was the face of a national awareness campaign. I was also the one living it. 🎭
In 2020, my face was on billboards and TV spots telling the world to "Face the Issue" of abuse. But behind that "Expert Box," I was privately navigating my own escape from a systemic hell.
I was the face of the message, but I was starving for the truth.
In my latest podcast episode, "The Bread vs. The Box," I’m pulling back the curtain on the Trauma Industrial Complex—the machine that harvests your pain rather than healing it. We talk about:
Why a regulated person is the only thing the system can't sell.
How to stop being "billable" to your past.
Redrawing your Trauma Map to find your Internal Source.
Listen now:
Colli K Christante
Creator, Producer, and Host
Action & Support Links
SUPPORT THE SHOW: Connect with Colli on Facebook: Colli Christante
LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE:
Podbean Website – https://innerexpression88.podbean.com/
Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/collitalks-transformative-conversations/id1736601427
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4fwX0rsGQKOwSQzqsDBUNg
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDsa8oZZvyKR5
Amazon - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/1d0b5f1d-b478-4ccf-804c-5381b271c1a7
GUEST INQUIRIES & TOPIC SUGGESTIONS: Email us at: innerexpression88@gmail.com
Believe Breathe Transform
Collitalks
Love and soul hugs
The 14-Year-Old Truth (Pre-Podcast Tease) 🎙️
The 14-Year-Old Truth (Pre-Podcast Tease) 🎙️
The Bread vs. The Box 📦🥖
When I was 14 years old, my mother died. My world was shattered.
That December, while everyone around me was caught in the frenzy of Christmas shopping and “perfect” gift-wrapping, I sat down and wrote an article for our local newspaper.
I saw something the adults were missing. I wrote about the children who weren’t being fed. I wrote about the families struggling to survive while the rest of the world obsessed over the “Box” - - the presentation.
The Insight: The Black Sheep Tax 🐑💸
Even as a child, I was witnessing what I now call the Black Sheep Tax. It’s the invisible price we pay when a system - whether it’s a family, a corporation, or a culture - - prioritizes the “Box” of appearance over the “Bread” of human truth.
We use excuses to cover the truth because the truth is uncomfortable. We say “it’s not that bad” or “it’s just the holidays,” while our nervous systems are screaming for safety.
The Vulnerability 🛡️
In 2020, I was the face of a national campaign telling the world to “Face the Issue” of abuse. Billboards. TV spots. Internet ads.
The world saw the “Box” of a successful Doctor. But inside, I was privately navigating my own escape from a “hell” that began in 2017. I was telling the world to face their truth while I was fighting for my life to face mine.
The Tease 🎧
I’m sharing the full story - -and the science of how we stop being “billable” to toxic systems -on my podcast tomorrow.
We’re going to talk about Trauma Maps, the Trauma Industrial Complex, and why choosing the “Bread” of truth is the only way to stop paying the tax.
The Low-Friction Question 💬
Does your “Box” feel a little too heavy this year? Have you ever felt like you were starving for truth while everyone else was busy gift-wrapping?
Drop a ❤️ if you’re ready to trade the “Box” for the “Bread.”
Believe Breathe Transform
Collitalks
Love and soul hugs
Wednesday, December 17, 2025
Shattering the "Black Sheep Tax" 🐑
Shattering the "Black Sheep Tax" 🐑
(The "Me Too" Moment) 💸
Have you ever felt like you pay a "tax" just for being the one who sees things differently in your family or circle?
I call it the Black Sheep Tax. It’s the invisible cost of being the "different" one. It shows up as:
🔋 The energy you spend "preparing" for a family phone call.
🛑 The guilt you feel for setting a boundary that others don't like.
📉 The pressure to play small so others feel comfortable.
The Vulnerability 🧘♀️
I’ve been working on this for a few years, and even I still feel the weight of it sometimes—especially when life gets busy and the "old roles" try to pull me back in.
I want to know if I'm alone in this. Which area does the "Black Sheep Tax" hit you the hardest right now?
Just drop the number below:
1️⃣ Family Dynamics (The pressure to conform)
2️⃣ Career/Money (Feeling like you have to work twice as hard to prove yourself)
3️⃣ Internal Peace (The "not enough" or "feeling behind" voice)
Believe Breathe Transform
Collitalks
Love and soul hugs
Subscribe to:
Comments (Atom)



