Surface Problem vs. Root Issue

🌹 Surface Problem vs. Root Issue 🌹 When people come to me, they often say things like: 👉 “I just need to stop overreacting.” 👉 “I need to manage my triggers better.” 👉 “If only I could control my emotions, I’d be fine.” But here’s the truth… what they really need isn’t more control. It isn’t about silencing the reaction or pushing the trigger away. 💡 The real issue is this: those triggers are connected to hidden loyalties, unhealed trauma, and ancestral patterns that keep them repeating the same cycles — no matter how hard they try to “manage” it on the surface. ✨ When we get to the root - - decoding the language of the nervous system, unearthing the buried pain, and releasing what was never truly theirs to carry — everything shifts. Instead of battling their reactions, my clients begin to feel: 🌿 Grounded in who they really are 🌿 Free from the constant loop of self-sabotage 🌿 Open to create a life that feels safe, aligned, and truly theirs Because the truth is - - you don’t need more willpower or self-control. You need liberation from the unseen forces shaping your life. That’s where the real transformation begins. 💬 Tell me — do you find yourself stuck trying to manage the same “problem” over and over? Maybe it isn’t the real problem at all. Believe Breathe Transformation Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Erotic, Sensual, Intimate

✨Erotic, Sensual, Intimate ✨ Welcome, beautiful souls, to ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations. Today, we enter a space rarely spoken of with such honesty, reverence, and sensuality. I’m joined by the luminous Irmgard Rauscher, who brings her deep wisdom and presence to guide us through the intimate terrain of perimenopause and menopause. This is not just a conversation about change—it is about desire, vitality, and the erotic pulse that still flows through us as women. It is about touching the places where body and soul meet, where longing and liberation awaken, and where we reclaim our right to feel alive, sensual, and whole in every season of life. Because the body is not just biology—it is a temple of pleasure and wisdom. A place where our deepest truths live, waiting to be listened to, honored, and celebrated. So, take a slow breath, soften into your body, and allow yourself to be held in this conversation. Together, we’ll explore the mysteries, the pleasures, and the power of womanhood in its most intimate unfolding. Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Have You Been Hurt by a Future You Haven't Even Arrived at Yet?

Have you been hurt by a future you haven’t even arrived at yet? So often, we suffer twice - -once from the wound itself, and again from the story we tell ourselves about what might happen next. Your mind, shaped by old hurts, is quick to project yesterday’s pain onto tomorrow’s possibilities. It fills in the blanks with fear, preparing for abandonment, rejection, or failure - - before life has even spoken. But here’s the truth: the meaning you attach to this moment is not fact, it’s a reflection of where you’ve been. When you pause, breathe, and choose to respond from the present—not from the ghosts of your past—you open the door to an entirely different reality. Sometimes the shift is subtle, like turning your face toward the light. Other times, it’s a complete reclamation of your story. Either way, it only takes one conscious choice to stop reliving an old pattern and start creating something new. 💫 What if your future wasn’t another repeat of the past? 💫 What if your next step was guided by clarity, not fear? 💫 What if you trusted life to unfold in ways you’ve never imagined? This is the work I do: helping you decode the hidden language of your fears, loosen the grip of the past, and create space for your future to arrive—free, fresh, and fully yours. Are you ready to stop carrying wounds from a life that hasn’t even happened yet? Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

Let's Get Back to Basics

🌿 Keep showing up with unwavering belief in the goodness of life. Let's get back to basics, You live in a dreamworld where all things are possible. Your mere existence is the undeniable proof. You don’t need the perfect plan. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Life was never meant to be linear. The detours, delays, and obstacles? They’re not mistakes — they’re the very stepping stones shaping you. ✨ The truth is: courage isn’t about certainty. It’s about showing up for yourself, your dreams Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

“No More Silence: Sex, Truth & the Rise of Authentic Desire”

Who Shall I Help Next?

🌿 In the great adventure of life, none of us “get it” at the beginning. We stumble, we learn, and so… help is sent. Over time, some begin to understand, but understanding without living brings no real change. So more help is sent. Then, a shift happens — a few begin to live what they know, and in doing so, they inspire others to begin “getting it” too. An upward spiral begins to unfold. Eventually, a time comes when more and more are both getting it and living it. This is how collective transformation takes root. So the question becomes not “When will I arrive?” but rather: ✨ “Who shall I help next?” Because every time you live what you know, you light the way for another soul. 💫 Believe Breathe Transform Collitalks Love and soul hugs

SHAME

Shame Episode ✨🎙️ I’m Colli Christante — creator, director, producer, and host of ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations. Every week, I open a space where conversations move beneath the surface — where we uncover the hidden patterns, the ancestral ties, and the quiet voices inside that shape our lives. This week, we’re leaning into a theme many of us carry but rarely speak aloud: shame. Shame can silence us, keep us small, and tether us to stories that were never truly ours. It lingers in our language, our bodies, and even in the lineage we carry. But here’s the truth: when we begin to name it, explore it, and gently unravel it, shame transforms. What once bound us becomes the very doorway into freedom, authenticity, and deeper connection. With over 40 years of experience in systemic trauma, family constellations, and self-sabotage work, I bring not just expertise but lived wisdom. As your host, I don’t just talk about transformation — I walk beside you in it. ✨ Tune in to this week’s episode as we shine light on the shadows of shame — and discover together how to reclaim the voice, truth, and power that have always been yours. 🎧 ColliTalks: Transformative Conversations — where healing meets truth, and truth sets you free.